Thanks for the feedback...OK, I could have used other more politically correct terminology, and when discussing this topic with local parents, I don't use those words to describe little johnny who has been playing for 2+ years (4-5 seasons/teams) and still can't catch a ball that is underhand tossed to him from 15 feet away.
Lets call those kids less coordinated or less skilled. Of those 300 kids my son played with in his Pinto PONY league this year, maybe 110 will still be playing by the time they 11-12.
I too think it's meessed up to be paying $50-$75 monthly dues for a 8U/9U travel ball team, playing 3-5 games over a weekend once a month, and traveling throughout So California, but the option is to have him play with other kids who's skill level is very low. There is noting else for him to learn in that league/age diviison because all the time is spent teaching kids how to catch,how to hold a bat, how to tag up, and explaining what an out is while my son (and others) are hitting home runs over the 150 ft fence and turning double plays.
There are no other options in this area. Little league has almost no representation....only 3-4 teams in that 7-8 year old category where POINY has 26. Little League ha sa bad reputation in our town.
Many of us for years have been asking our league to split up the 26 Pinto teams and form a more competitive/advanced league of 5-6 teams but they think that wouldn't be 'fair' because other kids would feel bad that they are not good enough to play in that league. Personally, I think it's the parents who woudl feel bad their kids are not advanced and have issues with allowing those who are to advance even faster than their kids.
Schools don't force the super smart math kids to sit side by side with other less advanced/bright kids because they will get bored been taught how to add 4+18 while they are ready to start long division or fractions. Scholls seperate them and give them more advanced work. Why would anyone want to do this with your kids in basbeall or any other activity?
Can you imagine forcing Johnny, who can play Mozart on his violin, to sit in music class with beginners because there is no advanced music class and teachers and parents think it would hurt the beginner kids feeling if they didn't get to be considered advanced?
I like the idea of playing him up a division with the 9 year old Mustang players, but he played this spring with those 8 year olds (he was 7) who will be playing in that 9U mustang divsion and it would just be more of the same. Playing up with 10 year olds might be too much due to the sheer size and maturity between a 3rd grader and 5-6th grader.
I'm also concerned that the rec league pitching will be much worse than on a travel ball team. Kids will either be getting beaned constantly or rarely throw a strike. I have been impressed at the pitching in travel ball.
I have considered if I'm trying to live out my desires through him....I don't know. I was a professinal golfer (D1 college and mini tours for 5 years), I never really played baseball except for 2-3 years as a small kid.
I appreciate the discussion. My true concern is to avoid buring him out while still giving him a challenge and opportunity to excel.....I don't push him...he's just naturally competitive.