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Originally posted by Jeff in So Cal:
"Hi guys, I see a lot of GREAT advice and well experienced people in here. I was curious if some of you guys could tell us what you do or did that gives you the knowledge you have? You don't have to be specific, but I'd love to know what perspective you're coming from... Coach, former coach, player, dad with former experience, dad (like me) with in the process of going to college/pro from high school etc, scout, etc."
I don't think this is one of those posts questioning the qualifications/credibility of posters here to offer whatever advice they are giving. I think it is a reasonable question that can help give newcomers here some hope that they will eventually get the level of "experience" that will put them at least close to on par with some of the wisest here among us.
For me, I'm mostly just a Dad. I'm also a former (failed) player, and I did coach until just about a year ago, but felt that with my son then a freshman entering the program I had been coaching in, it was best for him if I became "just a Dad." I still do what I can to support his HS, select, and showcase teams, but try to stay a bit more "behind the scenes."
Everybody here comes with their own unique set of experiences and outlook, and many have a vast array of experiences I can't begin to "compete" with - they've literally seen and done that already, several times over. BUT, to me, the biggest "qualifier" is an ability to listen, absorb what others have to offer, and offer whatever it is you have to offer respectfully and without judging the poster/questioner or others who offer their comments. That this happens most of the time on HSBBWeb is why this is the best site of its kind on the internet, IMO.