The reality is participating in any “travel sport” is expensive (talk to a hockey parent… wow!) . While I wouldn’t change a thing, the truth is between my daughter’s competitive dance and two son’s baseball habits we probably spent on average $12k a year for about 8 years (between their ages of 10 to 15). I always looked at this as an entertainment expense, not investment.
I’m sure my daughter is killer on the club dance floor, however in reality she isn’t really doing anything with all of her dance training now that she is in college
. My oldest son had a very nice scholarship offer from a top tier ACC baseball program however he went the professional route so I guess we could say we got a great return on the investment (Or should I say, he got a great return on our investment because I certainly didn’t see any of his signing bonus)
. Now that my youngest son is in high school he has found football so travel baseball is not his first priority anymore. We are new to football and I am really surprised how inexpensive football is (no travel teams). He still plays baseball on the HS team but he really isn’t pursuing it past HS so there are not a lot of travel team expenses anymore.
In the spirit of full disclosure, for my son that is now in professional baseball, once we realized he had a shot of playing big time baseball the cost of baseball went up considerably. This started around the age of 15 and lasted three years while he competed on a national level. Between team fees, showcases, instruction and travel expenses we probably spend about 10K a season (half of that on travel expenses for the two of us). And while I don’t think I would have regretted it if things didn’t work out, honestly to some degree, we did look at this as an investment and we only decided to do it after we had a pretty good idea he would probably play college ball. Being realistic about your son’s potential is a key component in my opinion. I’m not saying we wouldn’t have still participated in “travel” baseball if he wasn’t considered a high level player, we would have just done it more locally and not spent the summers hundreds of miles away from home.
The one thing that really surprises me is the number of players that are pretty good, but not necessarily high level high school players that are spending so much money hoping to catch lightning in a bottle. I know one dad that took out a loan to pay for the travel schedule and while his son was a nice player (and great kid), the truth is he was a an average high school player. The best advice I can give anyone before spending tons of money is to invest in going to a PG Showcase. After seeing the talent levels of the competition and after getting a qualified rating from people that know what they are doing you will have a much better idea if “going for it” is a realistic goal for your son.
Good luck to all going through this now, the travel ball years will be some of our fondest memories. Wish I had it to do all over again (especially knowing what I know now)