Bluedog, I think that that was a shot at me. The proposition is a 12 year old that has never played. I encountered that this summer. The kid and the kid's parents wanted instant success. Thus my explaination of the failure inherent in the game. Naturally, we would all want to stress a positive mindset in an at bat. I do wonder what you mean when you tell players not to listen to their coach. Are you then saying that you know all and their coach knows nothing and that you will be the one writing their names in the lineup? I don't profess to know it all but have had some success at this. We are the Triad Knights and our stats can be found at:
http://www.triad.madison.k12.il.us/ths/sports/baseball/index.htmAll of my kids listen to me or they don't play.