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I assume you live Delaware. Where is he wanting to go statewise (south, 2 hours away, west coast) I assume he aspires to play D1. There is always the risk of bird in the hand versus the one that might fly by. It is a risk for all of us but when you get the offer with a time attached it becomes very ramped up. If it is a place he could not see himself being happy then the answer is clear. If he just had not considered them, then maybe more looking into what they have to offer. If it is level...
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He hasn't taken the SAT yet GOV, but based on previous standardized tests, he should fare well. As far as his GPA, he is a 3.75 at least. His HS is very tough academically (not known for sports!!) and very small - like 60-70 in the graduating class. As far as Ivy League, not sure he would qualify academically. If they allow wiggle room for athletes, well, I think it would be ideal. If I won the MegaMillions
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PITCHINGFAN, I don't think my son knows what he wants! I am just trying to be as informed as I possibly can be to help steer him in the right direction. He is very fortunate to receive this offer and he knows that...but I think it is too early to make a decision this big.
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Well I can agree that it is hard to make a big decision in a short period of time, you should also realize that a lot of D1 level 2020 right-handed pitchers have already committed at this point.
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Then there is your answer. Accepting an offer as a junior is not for everyone. At the least, it should make for great talking points with him about what he is wanting. When my son started getting offers, we had to have long talks about what he would take and from who. I told him it was only partly his decision since I was paying for part of it. It became clear real quickly what he would take and wouldn't and from who. that cleared up a lot of the mud in the river. Just know that an offer as...
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Sounds like you have a talented son and perhaps there are more offers in the future. I would sit down with your son and talk to him, find out what he wants and make a plan to get there. He received a D1 offer with apparently not much dedication and focus to the process. That’s not criticism, more an acknowledgement maybe your son is more talented than you realize.
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I guess I would have to ask how many offers does he have as a OB? Because if the answer is none then why have you let football interfere with baseball? As that seems like where his future lies.
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You had a visit a few weeks ago, and you're just now thinking about other schools??? Come on, man. Your kid cant be ready in a couple of weeks to showcase his arm. This may be your only offer. Don't blow it.
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If he likes the school and has an opportunity to make an impact there, there’s no reason to wait. The coaches clearly want him If he doesn’t see himself going there right now, try to get more exposure.
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Letitgo, let me offer the other perspective. My son's first offer had a similar deadline put on it. He turned it down without having another offer in hand. Nerve-wracking for the parents!! But if your son doesn't feel like its the right fit . . . Every situation is different, but I guess from a practical standpoint, if you believe he will be touching 88-90 this Spring, he should be in a good position.
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1). Make a list of 10 schools he would want to play baseball at. 2). Take a look at what their recruiting classes look like on PG. If they already have 8+ kids committed it's probably not going to happen. 3). Sit down and realistically decide whether he is good enough to play at the top five or so schools on the list. If you think he's good enough, and they still look to be recruiting hold off until the summer. 4). Decide if the current offer is worth passing up for schools lower on the list...
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I say take the offer and be thankful you got it! As a dad of a 2019, 6' 3", 180 lb, 88 mph RHP, good grades and ACT, with tons of exposure (lots of PG tournaments, Jupiter, WWBA, etc.... over the past three years, with tremendous success at these tournaments), from the largest classification highschool in the state and a State championship under his belt, and not a single offer from a D1-3, I would highly recommend considering this offer.....because mid 80s RHPs are a dime a dozen.
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I really, really appreciate the perspectives from all of you. This information is very eye-opening - to say the least. After a meeting yesterday with a trusted coach/advisor, I think I also got my shot of reality (in a good way!) I was provided with a list of schools that matched my son's interests AND that he would have a great chance of getting into...I had no idea. We are going to do this the right way, be patient, visit a lot of schools, get him ready for a killer junior year of baseball...
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I will add (agreeing with stayfocused), I think a lot of people think D1 offers come more easily than they do. My son is a 2020 who was 6’2, throwing 90mph all summer. There were lots of schools talking to him but he only got two actual offers until the end of the summer when he started hitting 91. There are TONS of RHP throwing mid 80s. Frankly, there are a lot throwing 90...as sophomores. The talent pool is big and these schools have a lot to choose from.
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Letitgo....first, congrats on the offer...it's always fun to get that "first one" under the belt. I guess my biggest question is "what is generous". You don't have to answer here...maybe PM me if you want some insight (my son is a senior RHP at a mid-major. "Generous" offers for RHP throwing 85 don't come often....in fact if it's a bigger D1, a "generous" offer for a RHP may take 90+. I don't see the big showcase being an option now...especially if he isn't in "game shape". He could get hurt...
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We are living parallel lives..... son is a 2019 6'4 200 lb RHP, sitting 87-90 all summer, went to all the events, top travel team, no offers from D1s. Good grades and SAT. Hard part is looking on PG and seeing schools we talked to signing kids whose FB velocities are lower than his by 3-4 mph. He does have 2 D1 juco offers, and may go with one of them. So I would try to convince my kid to take the offer.
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If he was offered by a D1, perhaps they know something you don't? It's less likely they would offer a 2020 RHP throwing mid 80's, and much more likely they would have clocked his velo and saw a number they liked. Get him clocked asap - so you know where he is today.....
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To me the bolded comment gives you your answer. He's a 2020 with plenty of showcase and recruiting time ahead of him. Why say yes to the first thing that comes along if he doesn't want to go there? He should aspire to commit to a school he would love to go to (unless and until that is no longer possible).
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Because HS football is awesome and most every kid I know who plays (my son included) considers it one of the best things he's done in HS. It also makes him a better baseball player - stronger, faster and tougher.
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Um, what about the present? That's kind of important for a kid, as well. Some parents lose sight of that chasing the all important partial scholarship and the probability he'll never make a real living playing baseball or football.
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A 2018 kid in my son's high school league had a nice offer from a solid D1 here on the west coast. Only offer he had - he waited and waited until offer was off the table. Fast forward 6 months, he did commit to another D1 school with a strong baseball program that pretty much guaranteed a roster spot (he's a solid D1 level pitcher), however no money Risky to wait. Especially if head coach is leading the charge. Good luck either way.
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I think you are picking up on some great information and great perspective in a hurry. This is probably a mute point based on your post above. But, I was doing a bit of dot connecting. If I'm on the right track, your son's D1 in-state offer came from one of two schools. Purely from a baseball standpoint, one has a decent program, established coach, plays more of a true D1 schedule. The other... not so much. If the offer was from the other, you should really have far less reservations about...
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Nonamedad, why is the question? There has to be something if your son is throwing 93. Is it consistency, control, or something else. I would have a conversation with a coach or have your travel coach ask. There has to be something that is keeping him from getting offers. You don't throw that speed on good teams and not get offers. It may be a simple fix or it may be something that cannot be fixed easily but there is something. I know too many guys who are topping 88 RHP who have offers.
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Well done! I would also have him circle back with the offering coach and explain that he was behind in the preparation front, though not ready to accept now, would really appreciate circling back next summer (something to that effect). Something tells me the offer will still be in his pocket next year. Congrats and good luck, be sure to keep us posted!
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I never said 93.... 87-90 all summer. I think being a late bloomer may have hurt him, last summer he was 82. Added strength and worked hard to get to 90. I’m waiting for the Jupiter numbers to hit to see where he ranks, has to be in the 80% range. And he is sitting 89-90, saw may kids that dropped off a cliff after 1 inn at 90-93 then sat 86-88. Hard to say why there is no interest. Everyone says D1 ability.
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I guess. My son's senior year he had a freshman catcher who played football and ran track. Four years now as a standout receiver on a football team that has lost four games total in 5A and won a state championship. Finished the regular season about two or three wins shy of the record for consecutive regular-season games won, around 55 I believe. My wife talked to his mom at the store the other day and she admitted they're concerned about his recruitment in baseball. College coaches will...
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FWIW, Jupiter numbers are posted. 90 mph is the 95th percentile (95.22%) in PG's database for the 2019 class this year.
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Yes, no doubt football gets in the way of baseball recruiting. But you can make it work. Remember, we're not talking about an MLB prospect here, and likely not a Power 5 prospect (2020s are mostly committed to P5s by now), so he's not going to be making a living playing baseball. Giving up everything a kid loves for baseball for a kid like this doesn't make sense, IMO.
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I absolutely love the passion all of you have for this game (and also for your sons). I am not banking on my son playing in the MLB, but when a kid has 2 more seasons to go in HS, A LOT can change, hopefully for the better. Who are we to predict the future? Call me an optimist, but if my son decides to put in the work necessary to be better, who knows what could happen? If he aspires to go to the MLB, good for him, I just hope he enjoys the ride, doesn't look back and has no regrets. That...
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It sounds like you've taken a lot of positive out of this discussion. Just one last point - although your son has 2 more HS seasons remaining (sounds like a lot), he's really got about 8-10 months left for college recruiting, maybe a little more if he lands at a D3.
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Sorry. I assumed if he sat 89-90 he had topped about 93. Normally where you sit is 3-4 mph slower than top. Numbers are out today.
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Yes, one can "make it work". My son was a really good basketball player also. He played both basketball and baseball freshman year, was hurt sophomore year, did again junior year. After that he told me he just couldn't do both at an acceptable level. He wasn't OK being "OK" at both. I very much respected him for that. At every level of college baseball there are good and bad programs and everything in between. The players that end up in the bottom tier programs didn't decide "I want to play...
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If your son has the talent to play at a P5 school on almost a full ride, then it makes sense for him to focus on baseball and go in fully prepared. This isn't the case with the OP, he's looking mid-D1 to D3 and not getting any love yet. Totally different scenario. I've seen plenty of kids focus on baseball only to end up at a s#it program anyway, or not play in college at all, after having given up football or basketball or some other activity they really enjoyed. I think that's a mistake.
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Any interest at all from other programs that you'd be more comfortable with?
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There isnt a lot of information in your post that we can really help you with. What exactly are you and your son looking for exactly in terms of baseball and scholarship. From a D1 2017 possibilty the door is virtually closed, not all the way, but virtually all the money so to speak is gone. It's still possible to be a recruited walk on from this point but early signing period for D1 is less than 3 weeks away. Lots of JUCO money still left for 2017 and there should be no stigma as it relates...
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If what you're saying is, he's not got other baseball options, then it boils down to how interested he is in the school. If the school is not right for him, then he should consider choosing his school the way any non-athlete would, and work on the assumption baseball won't be in the picture for him in college. That would leave the door open for other late opportunities, but he would have to accept that this spring might be his farewell tour in baseball. I would encourage him to consider club...
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Thanks Dirk. We kind of assumed D1 was not an option at this stage. He is a late bloomer. He's 6'3" 220 and throws sidearm/crossfire, fast ball in the low 80's. He has a lot of movement on all of his pitches. His slider and change-up are very good. He just hasn't had a lot of exposure. He plays at a high school that has little exposure as well. I agree there is no shame in JUCO. The JUCO he wants has filled their 2017 roster and they are one of the best, if not THE best in this state...
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Thanks Midlo, that is good to know it's not too late in the game for the JUCO route.
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Juco puts u into a chance for a draft pick in your first two years of college . You can then move to a 4 year your junior or sophomore depending on what your goals are. What is your real plan on the whole process? Have you been talking with pro scouts? Also remember some of these kids will get a draft pick and positions will open up. If your being looked at and willing to wait and don't want to take what you consider a lower division. All phases of school are good just really depends on what...
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Congratulations on the offer! Seems like a win considering where we are at w/recruiting timeline for a 2017 If your son is serious about playing college baseball seems like he would want to jump on that! A suggestion, have your son contact the coach and schedule a visit right away . Get on campus , sit in on class , check out the social scene , and of course the baseball dept. he'll know what he wants to do after the visit Just my 2 cents
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Thanks everyone for the great advice. We are considering the offer and also looking at JUCO options. Any ideas on what date we should consider a drop dead date for making a decision? I don't think his current level of talent will get him drafted, he just wants to play in college, any college. He is anxious for other options. Frankly, so am I.
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Definitely take a visit to the school to see how much he likes it. And continue contacting JUCO's
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From a '17 recruiting standpoint, Your 'Drop dead date' is not your decision. The school that is offering will determine that. There is an expiration date on that offer. Your son needs to know when the deadline is. It's late for a 2017. And don't forget , the coach that offered your son is talking to 3-4 other players about the same spot just my opinion
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My opinion on this is it's how you feel with the coach and the school. There are very few scholarships given for baseball at any level. If your son wants to play and get better consider the school as what is their policy/norm that you have seen on playing freshman or sophomores for that matter. We just signed, went the JUCO route and that was primarily based on the coaching staff, size of school for the first year and will stay in state but stay in dorm in a smaller town. This way gives him...
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Jaguars Jr, congrats on an offer! Like others have said, visit the school. Does your son have a particular line of study in mind? My 2017 does not so he's going JUCO. The JUCO's gave him until December 1 to make a decision, though over the past 6 weeks, the contact became more frequent. Remember that the coaches need to know who's coming and how much money is left in their budget.