Many 2014 grads---not all but many---should have a fairly solid understanding at this stage of where their talent is, and where it isn't. Yes, there will be exceptions as some talent emerges later and that can certainly impact a player's Division I recruiting prospects. My youngest son was a fringe DIII player at best at the start of his junior year but developed over the next 8-10 months, generated serious Division I recruiting interest in June, and committed to a DI program before July 1. What drove his recruiting success in large part was that we had focused on a targeted list of schools that accurately reflected his student-athlete profile; despite interest developing from other Division I schools, we relied on that profile and didn't stray from it regardless of how tempting those other opportunities seemed to be.
But although exceptions will always exist, and some Division I programs will be recruiting players this fall once their "A List" recruits choose other schools thus providing potential opportunity for "B List" players, the recruiting process has accelerated for sure, and the advent of camps, showcases, and high profile tournaments makes it much easier for a Division I recruiter to identify, and snag, talent much earlier. If June may be a bit too early to draw conclusions regarding a player's Division I recruiting prospects, Labor Day would generally represent the end of Phase I---largely the domain of Division I---of the recruiting process with Phase II of the journey---the Division II and III phase---starting to quickly heat up at that time. But beware---don't take DII and DIII for granted as more and more of these programs are becoming aggressive earlier as well. And with Division I roster caps producing a trickle down effect, the talent levels at DII and DIII have been elevated making a player's odds of being recruited even more of a challenge.
For many 2014 grads (2015 grads should pay attention), the need to acquire a firm, realistic grasp of your current tools is essential in order to best target and manage time and resources in the months ahead. Obtain an honest, no-holds-barred evaluation (the first step I take with any new player I tutor) from a qualified source, maybe several sources, as this is not the time to be overly sensitive, your college future, and your family budget, may depend on it. From there, develop your own customized plan for the next 4-6 months; if you are aren't an obvious Division I talent, then focus on the DII and/or DIII world. If your tools are still emerging however, and Division I interest has a chance to genuinely grow by the end of the summer, get in front of a Division I audience but please be smart about it. Tools and talent drive the recruiting process, and knowing for sure what your baseball abilities truly entail at this moment will be the key to your decision-making and eventual recruiting success.
Regarding feedback, communications, lack of frankness, etc., from some college coaches, that is the nature of the beast and it isn't going to change much. Camps---although invaluable for many players if selected correctly---are money-makers and some coaches will string you along. Sadly, deception is not uncommon, and don't ever expect some coaches to show you the courtesy that you have earned...not going to happen, and you will drive yourself crazy thinking otherwise. But you can take greater control of this process, and that starts with educating yourself about it, doing your homework along the way, not succumbing to the hype, accessing the experience and wisdom of others, and embracing a hefty dose of reality as the process unfolds.