It's easy for parents and kids to get anxious when they see other kids , Freshman or Sophomores commit . My son who was a 2016 and now plays at a D1 program played on one of the top travel teams ( ranked #5 in country by PG ) as a sophomore. There were guys on his team committed as Freshman to Pac12 and ACC schools. My son wasn't one of the top guys on that team. He was an LHP and worked primarily out of the pen and indeed helped them win . He also got a ton of exposure . But there was that question, what's with the early commits ?
A couple years later I found out the answer. A Pac12 asst coach told me that they only recruit guys that have the skill set to play for them NOW. It doesn't matter if it's a Jr or Sophomore . It's about the skill set. And there is certain amount of projection involved . But not much. If an RHP is sitting 91 as a Freshman that plays in the Pac12 Now
Also, every kid has their own path. It sounds like a terrible cliche but it's true. The bitter truth is that the kid that got offered before you is a better player. Period. Tracy Smith ( HC Arizona State ) say's it best :
"The key to recruiting is finding the right fit.....not just for the University but the player. I see a lot of guys that aren't right for us but that doesn't mean they're not right for college baseball"
As far as the OP's inquiry on what to do: This summer your son will be a rising Junior . It's time to get busy. Contrary to other opinions , I would get him on campus at a school for camp. Not a big 10 school or anything like that . Just a mid level school. Camps have a certain rhythm and schedule . It's really great experience for him to deal with waiting around all day and having to turn it on for 10-15 minutes and then wait another hour. Get him on campus somewhere .
Some general unsolicited advice:
The biggest mistake parents and kids make is that they chase the same 6-10 dream list schools. And those schools rarely if ever offer. There is no dream list....haha. The school picks the player , the player doesn't pick the school .
The second biggest mistake parents and kids make is they target exclusively D1 schools.
The third biggest mistake is that they don't contact or get seen by enough schools . A proper recruiting strategy targets 25-30 schools all over the country and at all levels D1, D2, D3 .The trick to recruiting is to cast a WIDE NET.
Never go anywhere unannounced . If you are planning to attend on campus camp. Send an advanced email a week in advance with the Vitals: Height , Weight , age , GPA , Test scores , HS coaches cell phone number / email, Travel ball coaches number / email. Current baseball stats and a short introductory about why you like their university . Send to the recruiting coordinator ( RC ) . NEVER the head coach.
Get good grades and Start prepping for ACT/ SAT testing NOW. The first thing a RC asks a player he's interested in is : " What are you grades like , tell me your test scores" . Don't listen to HS counselors who tell kids they have time. Baseball kids are 1 year in advance . NLI 's ( for D1 commits ) go out Nov Junior year. At that time the school has to of already received test scores , grades . The target date is a final solid SAT / ACT score going into Summer before senior year ( Rising senior) that is the baseball timetable
Get on the BEST travel team available. If your kid is one of the top 3-4 players , you picked the WRONG TEAM. Kids get better by playing w/ kids better than them not the other way around. And College RC's don't waste time at a big event looking at rinky dink squads . They all go to the games where the top teams are playing .
Hire a track coach. Foot speed is huge in NCAA baseball . Even for catchers . You gotta break a 7.0 in the 60 to get offered at the D1 level.
HIT. THE. BALL. HARD. Don't be taking a bunch of pitches when you're showcasing . RC's want guys that are aggressive and hit the ball HARD. On base percentage , plate discipline gets you ZERO attention. It works against you. Better off banging a ball off the wall in your 1st AB and striking out the next 2 AB's then hitting a weak opo single or anything on the ground .
From a parenting, planning and budget perspective , Everything in recruiting is way in advance. If you want your son to get exposure this summer by attending camps or being on a good travel team, tryouts for those teams and sign ups for the big summer events are happening NOW......A friend told me Stanford opened up registration for 2018 summer camp 3 weeks ago and there is already a wait list for middle infielders !
Lastly, NEVER forget the facts : Only approx 4-5 % of the HS players play at the NCAA level......only 2% at the D1 level
Hopefully some of this helps. Take what you can and disregard what you can't . Good luck