My son recently attended fall camp at Boston College, and the head coach held a Q & A question with parents. He directly answered questions regarding: allocation of scholarship money, verbal commitments, 2011 recruiting needs, where the kids live, how he finds recruits, where they recruit, value of high school/summer coaches' views, amount of school missed due to travel. He answered more, I just don't remember all of the questions - every question asked received a direct answer.
He talked about the difference between DI and DIII, and that some kids prefer the DIII lifestyle even if they could play DI, and that's ok. He described a typical day for one of his players.
It affirmed the advice given here to ask questions.
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