One thing that I work on very diligently with my son is attitude. If the umpire is not calling strikes or he gives up a hit or there are errors behind him, I won't tolerate showing negative emotions. Over the years he has run a lot of laps to help reinforce this and I am happy with the results.
I am now coaching his Major rec team and one of the players has a serious attitude problem that I am going to attempt to "fix" beginning at today's practice. Here's my question. From your experience with kids at this age (12U), what attitude adjusters do you use? I am probably not the best at this because if he were my son he would be running many, many laps and this may be a bit harsh for rec players of this age. My son is used to it, but he is not and I am sure his parents would have a melt-down if I treated him like I do my own.
This boy is probably the best athlete on the team and is a standout AAU kid. He seems to be taking this team less seriously and is causing us problems. He is genuinely a nice boy and I like him, but he is in need of some discipline.
I have already had several conversations with him about being a team leader, etc. but they have not worked.
Last nights game was the last straw, showing up the ump, dogging it in the field, etc., etc., etc. We won the game but it was closer than it needed to be and against better competition we probably would have lost.
Any suggestions?
Thanks,
R.
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