By that logic why do you think MLB has all manner of developmental leagues?...and you rarely see an 18 year old playing in an MLB game..playing freshman ball is not a wasted year at all...sounds like some parents are the ones who have an issue with it.
I don't have issue either way but I, like others, certainly have a different experience. I was a very recent ten year HS coach and travel coach previously. One of my sons also played through college. I followed all the local kids and a good many of my son's friends and teammates thru the years. The ratio that Francis describes is fairly typical in this area... maybe 2 kids every six years or so from each HS on average play V as a freshman. If I compared all the kids that went on to play in college to the subset who were 4 yr HS V players, the percentage of those 4 yr V HS players sticking with their 4 yr colleges would be higher that the rest of the group.
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The best coaches/teachers are those that you remember and thank in your heart for the lessons and knowledge they gave you that helped you in life..although you may not have realized it at the time...playing the best nine as you say is more of a travel team concept in my opinion..there is something to be said for putting time in the HS program that prepares you for life..learning that talent alone is often not enough..how you handle working your way thru obstacles is real talent..how do you learn that playing varsity as a freshman?
Again, I respectfully disagree. Most of those freshman V players were able to earn that spot, at least in part, because they had been involved in more competitive travel play outside of the HS program and they were putting in a lot of extra work via some combination of outside instruction, extra practice reps, etc. So they are already learning the lessons of working thru obstacles and how talent is not enough. In many instances, they are also exposed to a larger pool of good players at an earlier age (via travel) and, so, often have a more realistic approach and understanding of where they fit in the bigger picture when going through the recruiting process.
My experience is the opposite than yours in this regard too - HS varsity baseball is playing the best nine. Travel has multiple purposes, quite often to assure that each player play and/or be seen playing.
Regarding your MLB analogy, I think there are specific reasons that you don't see 18 y.o.'s playing in an MLB game that are completely unrelated to the reasons a freshman may or may not play at the varsity level. So, while some comparisons can be drawn, not an apples to apples comparison.
My own son played V as a freshman but that was more of a reflection of the program at the time. If he was entering the same program with the same skill set three or four years later, he probably would not have played V freshman year. Either way, I think he would have taken a very similar path afterward.
I certainly do agree that it is a big problem when parents have issue with the decision of the coach/program where the player is needed. So, we're practically on the same page