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A tragedy. I can only imagine what these families are going through.

Fellow freshman charged with murder after argument ends in blows, police say

BY JOHN CHAMBLISS Post and Courier

What started as a heated argument between two college freshmen at a small Christian university ended Tuesday with one dead and another facing murder charges.
Grant Ringenberg, 18, who friends described as an athletic, caring person with a great sense of humor, died about 3:15 p.m., 15 hours after he was beaten into a coma.
Ringenberg, of Apex, N.C., suffered massive head injuries during a fight early Tuesday with classmate Dan Thomas Davis III at Charleston Southern University, North Charleston police said.
Ringenberg was repeatedly hit and kicked in the face outside a dormitory, suffering brain damage and fractured bones. Police said he slipped into a coma soon after the beating.
Davis, 18, was charged with murder. He and Ringenberg both lived on campus. School officials would not release Davis' hometown.
Davis was first held in the Charleston County jail on $100,000 bail on a charge of assault and battery with intent to kill. Charges against him were later upgraded to murder, said Spencer Pryor, a police spokesman. Another bond hearing is scheduled today.
Students at the private Baptist college were devastated.
"Words cannot express how unbelievably saddened we are at the news of Grant's passing," said Jairy Hunter, university president. "He was a promising student and athlete. We continue to pray for everyone who is involved in this tragic situation."
Witnesses were trying to pin down the exact cause of the dispute, but police said an ongoing fight over Ringenberg's girlfriend led to the fight. Friends of Ringenberg said the fight was linked to an earlier dispute during a Halloween party. It was unclear what the two argued about then.
The altercation started about 12:30 a.m. Tuesday outside Russell Hall in the rear of the campus. Davis told police that Ringenberg had called him "to talk" and asked him to meet at the "horseshoe," an area outside the dormitory where students socialize.
About 20 people witnessed the exchange, which quickly turned into an argument as the two moved closer to each other.
Davis made a derogatory remark about Ringenberg's girlfriend. "Dan said, 'I don't know why I would want that,' " said witness Carolena Stemler.
"They were screaming at each other for about three minutes," said witness Rebecca Peters, a friend of Ringenberg's.
During the argument, Davis handed a friend his cellular phone. Ringenberg's hands remained in his pockets, Stemler said.
Seconds later, Davis punched Ringenberg, knocking him to the ground, police said.
Ringenberg's head struck the concrete surface, knocking him unconscious, witnesses said. Davis then crouched over his classmate and repeatedly punched him in the head, they said.
"Grant was choking on his blood," Peters said.
A friend of Ringenberg shoved Davis and it appeared that he would walk away. Seconds later though, he walked back to Ringenberg's still body and repeatedly kicked him in the head, police said.
Later, Davis walked into the Dean of Students' office and gave a statement, according to police. Peters asked friends of Ringenberg to turn him on his side so he wouldn't choke.
Emergency officials arrived and took Ringenberg to Trident Medical Center. He was later transferred to Medical University Hospital.
Peters said that many of the witnesses were friends of Davis.
"It happened so fast," Peters said. "We thought it was just going to be one punch and he was done."
Until Tuesday, there hadn't been one fight involving the 3,000 students, Hunter said.
"This is an isolated event we haven't seen in the 21 years I've been here," he said.
A redshirt pitcher for the Eagles, Ringenberg was a star pitcher in high school in his hometown.
More than 1,000 students, about a third of the entire student body, attended a prayer service at the university's on-campus chapel just hours after learning of Ringenberg's death. The school chaplain led the participants in prayers for the families of both students. Other speakers included students, school administrators and the baseball coach, Jason Murray.
Murray said he envisioned Ringenberg becoming a "superstar" if he had put some weight on his lanky 6-foot-4-inch frame. Neil Krock, a sophomore who plays the outfield, asked God to have mercy on his teammate.
"We just pray that you have mercy on him, Father," Krock said. "He's in a better place with you, Father."
Dr. Bob Ratliff, dean of students, asked the room to pray for both families.
"We also pray, Father, for the family of Dan. Dan's family also got a call today that they never expected," Ratliff said. "For two lives have been forever changed."
He prayed for those who are angry, "that those who are angry, their anger will turn to compassion."
Dr. Rick Brewer, vice president of student affairs, said that in the coming weeks, the school plans a memorial service with Ringenberg's family. The family had told him they would donate several of Ringenberg's organs to others.
"We know that's a God kind of love that cares for others," Brewer said. "Let's pray together."
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Whew! That story will put you back on your heels.

Our prayers go out to the family of Grant Ringenberg...certainly they could never have imagined that this could happen to their son. Our most sincere sympathies are with this family on their very unexpected and huge loss.

Our sympathies are also with the Davis family...instead of a loss they will have to endure the burden of what their son has wrought. Again...who could have imagined that this could ever happen? This family is facing a great struggle and needs our prayers to help guide them through this unexpected, yet very tragic, circumstance.

Our prayers should also go out to the students and in particular the baseball team along with their coach...truly hard to grasp the reason why this tragic incident ever occurred.
My son is on the team, and he was as shaken as I've ever heard him when he called yesterday to tell us about it. Please do send your prayers to all involved. Like CD, I'm confused about why the boy kept beating him even after he was down. Those details are still unclear. But the entire campus is in mourning today. Thanks for all the good thoughts from this forum.
That is a tragedy in itself...no one coming to this young man's defense. We all know what we would do...but what about our kids?

I would hope they would do the right thing but in this instance nothing was done it seems...even when it appears that something very, very serious was occurring.

What would any of the witnesses to this horrific incident pray for if they were the one on the ground...unconcious...and being kicked to death?

This really is troubling.

Again...prayers to all involved because this really is a tragedy at many different levels as lafmom says.
That young man was my son's roomate. He was sucker punched and kicked to death right outside his dorm. The families deserve our comlassion but Davis deserves the chair.
My son is devastated. My wife and I are in tears and can't stop crying. We met Grant in August as our son moved into their dorm Grant came over and extended his hand and introduced himself. My son was loooking forward to going home with Grant for Thanksgiving. Close freinds of ours stopped in on their way to Florida and took Grant and my son to dinner. They took pictures of them and commented on what a nice polite young man he was.
Grant did not have a chance to defend himself and was sucker punched in the side of the head. Repeatedly punched and kicked while sensless on the ground. There is no excuse for this behaviour and no mercy.
I believe that a kid with this king of rage would eventually harm or kill someone some day. The act of lashing out in a moment of anger is possibly deserving so mercy but to go back and kick Grant in the head is worthy of the maximum penalty.
My son won't be able to play ball, go to the mall and watch movies with his new freind but his parents will never feel his love for the rest of their lives.

Rest In Peace Grant.
WOW.

My sympathies go out to Grant's family and all others that were touched by this tragedy.

I've tried to accept the act as a "fit of rage" or "temporary insanity" but to go back and and put an exclamation on the assault is nothing more than a lack of compassion toward a living being. This monster was born to blow at some point, it is an outright shame that it was at the expense of someone good.
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lhpx2 thanks for the PM. I e-mailed you.
I know that the people on this site are caring people who have instilled good values in their kids. Baseball players are hard working and polite as a rule because their parents care about them and support them. Being a part of a team is like extended family. My son said CSU was like living in pleasanville. The people were so friendly and this tragedy is as foreign to this school as possible. Occasionally a bad apple turns up and does the unthinkable.
This happens in Canada as well. We were very strict in a nice way with our children as they grew up. No parties, no drinking and had to check in were ever they went. Needed permission to go out with friends. We always explained why and we had no resistance from any of them. One of my son's friends went to a party about 3 years ago. He got into an argument and 3 guys jumped him on the way home and put him in a comma. Fortunately he recovered.
I don't know why noone helped. I would like to think it happened so fast that no one had time to react.
This shows that we all have to show our kids how much they mean to us because a tragedy can happen no matter how hard you try to keep them safe.
Thank you BobbleheadDoll for sharing and keeping us posted. Give your kid a hug for me when you see him next. He, along with everyone else will get through this, but it won't be soon or easy.

If any valuable lessons can be learned from this senseless tragedy I think we will find them.

Already some lessons are emerging.

BeenthereIL has questioned why someone didn't just walk away.

Many others are asking why no one stepped in to break it up.

Others are wondering why someone so obviously prone to violently exploding wasn't dealt with in some manner previously.

Someone else wondered how this could occur at a good Christian school...this, of course, can occur anywhere...it's just that you would not expect it in this setting.

We should learn from this and more importantly our children should learn from it...as tough and unpleasant as it is.
My son is a soph player at CSU...he has loved every minute of his time at this university. As LLPX2 & Bobbleheaddoll have both said, this university setting is really wonderful, in every way.

My son called me as he and some of his teamates were leaving the hospital. He said hi dad...then started crying, it was so hard to understand what he was saying, as it really shook him, and the entire community. Ater that conversation I sat in my chair and sobbed for quite a while. First and formost for Grant, and his Family...but later for myself and the thought of if it was my family... I can NOT imagine any such thing.

During fall practice, we often spoke about the happenings of each day, he would talk with excitement of all the players...how special they all were. He specifically had mentioned Grant in the past and thought he was gonna be a real good one... but more importantly he talked about Grant as a person which was even better.

My thoughts and prayers are with the Ringenberg's... also with the Players, coaches, and their families. I know each and everyone of us has been shaken by this tradedy, but I believe all will bond together to be a closer family.

Today as I spoke again to my son, he said he was priviliged to have gotten to know Grant, and that he was now in a special place with God. A few minutes later he said goodbye...I love you dad (he always does) but this time it went even deeper.... take nothing for granted!!!! Life is so precious.
I'm reading these posts and just shaking with sadness for this young man. As someone who is recently converted to the Southern Baptist faith Grant will be in my prayers at church this evening.

I have been to Charleston Southern several times and the description of it being like "Pleasantville" is accurate. It was a place you wanted to send players - particularly Christians as it is a devote school. In fact, RJ Swindle went there from the Renegades.

Jason Murray is a young coach who is going to be great in this profession because not only is he an outstanding coach on the field, but a tremendous person off of it.

I hope that people understand this was an issolated incident on one of the calmest campuses I have ever been too. I wish Murray and the CSU team the ability to get past this tragedy and move forward in a positive way.

God Bless everyone.

Bob Pincus
What a terrible outcome for two young men. The story is even more tragic when considering that these boys were attending a Christian college where charity for all, malice toward none is taught.

It is a complete breakdown in the the support system there for students to resolve their differences...especially with so many instructors versed in dealing with conflict.

I can only express how deeply saddened I am to hear that these two families will be suffering such a traumatic circumstance so close to our family's get togethers at Thanksgiving. There will be one missing at each table and only memories of what was and what could have been.

God have mercy and bless these two families in the time of their most dire need.
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My deepest sympathy to all the players and families at CSU. Especially the two represented here on this board. I just sent a private message to IHPX2. My son played at CSU for 3 years. (I used to be a very active members of HSBBW but have somehow have slipped off for a long time, but hearing of this terrible action, I was pulled back to this site and am pleased to see two CSU families represented. Too bad I came back under such a bad situation- all too often the case) Anyway, Our deepest sympathy. Keep in touch. Doubledad
I told my son the news before school this morning. Grant was a member of Team Florida with my son. They traveled the southeast for an entire summer, and were oftentimes roommates over the course of the summer. He was one 'his favorite' new acquaintences...and they had a lot of laughs together.

This is just heartbreaking...prayers to all that knew Grant...and to his family.
Oh my God! I just read this and I am sick.

We knew Grant! He was a great kid with a lot of potential. This is so shockingly sad! I can’t even begin to express the sorrow I feel right now.

Often I’ve posted that there are much more important things than baseball. I didn’t need this kind of reminder. I just told some of our staff members and everyone is in shock around here. They remember Grant Ringenberg, too.

To Grant… his family and friends… you’re in our thoughts and prayers. You will never be forgotten.
HAve not been able to post since I saw this thread.
My daughter's boss' son goes to CSU, football. He absolutely loves it there.
I am as confused as anyone as to why no one helped, just as I was confused when something like this happened in our town a few years ago, with observers, no one helped.
My prayers to all familes, and to those of you who have children who knew Grant.
Keep us posted.

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