How do you convince a kid that their nervousness is just cold feet? My daughter (a senior fastpitch softball pitcher) worked very hard to be good enough to play college ball. That has been her goal and now she is being offered a scholly to a good school that is not local (but only 1 1/2 hrs. away) and she is thinking about turning it down. She says she is afraid she will get there and, because she doesn't know anybody, will be miserable. I have explained to her that it is just an hour or so away and she could feasibly come home every weekend. Has anyone else experienced this kind of cold feet? If so, what did you do to ease their mind?