Iowabb, I do use my son as an example sometimes, he's done some amazing stuff and acheived at a very high level, his future is indeed very bright (Here is a chronical of his senior year to understand what I'm saying
http://letstalkpitching.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=2943), unfortunately I can't claim his abilities come from my skill...I understood that his talents were beyond my talent when it became apparent he was more than just having fun. So the example was created by the catcher who caught Greg Maddux's first Cy Young and a D-1 pitching coach at the University of North Florida, I did teach him the curve.
What I am offering is 25 years and approximately 65 teams coached with every level except national as levels of success, I've spent about 180 hours studying pitching at the college level on the field and have closely studied the people who have taught my son over the last decade.
Now I'm sorry, I assumed that you were an engaged and intelligent person who has the confidence to be able to impart information and skills (If not by your hand..some other trained and considerate hand) to your kid and be able to expect responsible behavior on his part once that information or skill is imparted. If that isn't the case than I apologize, I've posted in error. If it is your intention to just let your dunderhead of a kid be taught how to do something that could prove possibly injurious and let go to have some egocentric coach use his new found skill until he's ruined..well my bad I should have minded my own business.
You won't give him a drag racer the day he's taught to drive will you?
Or give him a loaded AK-47 the day he first learns about guns?
Or call the rehab center when he's taught about steroids or other bad drugs?
I expect that, because you've posted and invited advice, that you care and want the best for your child. I'm talking from reality, I certainly don't want your son to get injured or hindered. What I simply wish to impart on you is that the curve ball is a pitch, it's been around for over a hundred years, it can be thrown successfully and responsibly as part of what makes an entire pitcher. I can give 10 examples of success at the major league level for every guy who doesn't use it as part of what he does. Now Bobble and I weren't the only folks on this thread that don't "Really" understand pitching, Roger Tomas (A National Pitching/Tom House trained instructor and TPM who has a boy who playes in the pro's) also noted that it could be taught in a responsible way..given that you as a parent will A) Get responsible behavior out of your son and B) Not allow over-use from an egocentric win happy coach.
I will tell you though that as your son gets older and his walk draws closer to the higher levels of talent, his risk of injury increases. This is why I made my impassioned suggestion that you have the kid taught as much about arm health and maintenance and conditioning as you possibly can. Any athletic endeavor can and does have injury associated to it, the more you stay engaged and the better training you get for him..either by increasing your skill or getting assistance from some more skillful or knowledgable person, the more you mitigate that injury risk.
I hope you now have a little bit better understanding of my suggestion.