I have always been of the thought that adults should never speak to or yell at a player. But the question comes should a coach ever use his position to try to get in a player's head.
Examples: Icing a kicker or free throw shooter.
Yelling balk just as a pitcher is getting ready to pitch.
Last night, we had a coach who would call a timeout with 2 strikes on the batter just as the pitcher was getting ready to pitcher. He did it in 6 of the 7 innings. Does it every game and every team in our region knows it is going to happen. It is amusing how the different coaches deal with it. Catholic school took a knee and prayed for him every time he did it, I mean every player on the field and every player/coach in the dugout. One team just stands and stares at them with no one moving including the third baseman stands on the bag and the players come out of the dugout. Our coach took it lighthearted and our guys played rock, paper, scissors while the dugout did rain delay tactics.
Your thoughts? Are these actions appropriate or does it step over the unwritten rules of baseball lines. I believe players can do things to get in each others heads but I believe adults need to be adults.