I'm going to use some fantastic advice from PGStaff posted on another thread to frame this topic:
PGStaff posted:Message to all parents... Find out how talented your son is from someone honest that you trust. Not how good he is on his team, but how good he really is. That will tell you what to do and whether you should spend much money. No showcase, no recruiting service, no one on earth, can help him enough unless he has enough ability. Not batting average or ERA, but ability! Even then, there's more to it than ability alone.
My older son is a freshman. Up until now, everything -- wiffleball, little league, travel ball, junior high baseball, high school baseball, his high school travel team -- has been about having fun and getting better at baseball (well, maybe not the wiffleball, that was 100% about fun).
Recently I find myself running into people who assume that 2019Son is on his travel team for exposure, or asking about tournaments for the same reason. Heck, his high school varsity coach asked me about a tournament this summer as an opportunity for exposure.
This is going to sound unhinged, I suppose, on this board and in this community, but I don't care about exposure -- at least not yet. 2019Son wants to dedicate his summer to baseball. He has very specific goals that he wants to get to by next spring (in terms of velocity, weight, etc.). We'll see. Anyway, that's going to be the focus, not exposure.
To use a hypothetical pitcher as an example, what is the point of a young kid (say, a freshman or rising sophomore) going to a showcase and throwing 75 or 80 mph? Or a hypothetical middle infielder running a 7.8 sixty? Why would anyone do that? Why not use the dollars (and time) and work on getting better at baseball?
To the old-timers on the board, two questions: (1) when did you first showcase your kid? and (2) was the timing of that a function of age (for example, "well, he's a junior so I guess it's time to showcase") or ability (for example, "hey, he's 85+ from the mound, it may be worth showing")?
Thanks in advance.