Many of you know my 6 year old is playing 7-8 coach pitch this year. I'm not coaching, but I'm helping out when the coach needs me to.
On Saturday, we had a game for which we were the home team. Coach asked me to umpire and I said no problem. We score 3 in the bottom of first inning, so coach is happy guy. In the top of second, other team scores 3 to tie things up. While we are still in field, I hear coach telling the boys to chatter a little. The next thing I know, he has our players yelling "hey batter, batter...swing", as the pitch is coming into the hitter. I yelled timeout and asked him to speak at home plate. He was behind second base directing the fielders. I told him I didn't want to hear his team (my son's team) talking to the other players. I was all for chatter, but constructive chatter not directed toward the other team. The coaches on the other side could hear me, so could a few parents sitting directly behind the backstop. The coach got all upset and said, and I quote, "it is part of the game. Getting into the other kid's heads is what our boys need to learn." I am not kidding, he said that. I was so disturbed, my voice started to raise to a level much louder than I wanted. I told the coach it was not part of the game, and that if his son were at bat and another team did that to his son, he would be the first to complain. I didn't necessarily want a "gotcha moment", but I got one anyway. Gotta love unintended consequences.
Needless to say, we didn't have anymore problems the rest of the day. Not only did the other coaches tell me after the game they appreciated me stepping in, but many of our parents told me they wanted the coach to teach them baseball, not how to get over on another seven year old.
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