No, we don't have an offer on the table--not even close--but if one were to come, how long does a recruit have to accept/reject an offer? Don't suppose it's forever, but also don't want to feel like we'd have to leap at the first one if there is a possibility of others coming...
I'm sure that it can vary, but some general guidance is appreciated. If it matters, for reference, the player is a 2020. (Feels like the only uncommitted one)
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Typically the coach making the offer will give you some kind of an idea. If not, it's ok to ask. A lot depends on the kid and the offer. If it's a stud that they know they want, they may make a better offer....but give you a short period to accept/decline....trying to "force" you to make the decision. I don't know that anyone can give you a "typical" timeline on how long it's good....there are just too many variables
It depends on the coach, timing and needs, both yours and theirs.
My 2018 got a D2 offer after his sophomore year. Coach told him he was not in a rush and expected that he would get other and better offers, but wanted to be in early so son would know he was wanted. That offer was still outstanding when he committed elsewhere. It was a good school that was in the running until the end.
Another made him an offer before his junior season, and told him that they had x amounts of scholarships to give. They then kept in close touch with him as other people committed, taking some of that available money. When he committed elsewhere, I think they still had one spot left to give.
Later in the process, a couple of coaches did tell son they had a specific deadline maybe a week out. I was proud of son, he responded with a list of visits he had scheduled and told coaches "i have promised to do these and I keep my word. If you need to move on from me before then, that's up to you, but I'm not going to go back on my word to others because of your deadline. I'll be able to give you an answer by this date."
Now son had the luxury of knowing he had multiple offers and that he was still hearing from new schools at that time. He might have felt differently if he had been at the end of his junior summer with only the one offer.
My 2018 had several offers. The most common time line was "sooner better than later", then they simply kept in contact via text. My interpretation of sooner better than later, is a month.
He had a D2 offer very early, stating they knew D1's were coming but needed to let him know he had a spot, until he decided he didn't want the spot. Coincidentally, that very same coach seen him recently, stating it's still available IF the D1 school he had chosen doesn't work out.
As usual, good info from Buckeye and Iowa... agree there are too many variables. Most happen somewhere between Iowa's first two scenarios... standing offer and regular communication about their money being spent.
Usually, coaches will try to get a feel for where you are in your process and match that up with their urgency. The degree to which they communicate that seems to vary widely. You shouldn't accept before you are ready but do know that the RC and HC are in constant search mode to fill specific slots/needs and every day that passes, they are more behind their competitors. That's why they will sometimes give short windows. Also keep in mind, regardless of the time frame they give, if you have not accepted and they find an equally talented (or better) kid who will accept, your spot is either gone or reduced. It's a fine line. Of course, the more talented you are, the more leverage, leeway and options you will have.
One said, take your time.
One called right after we left (we stopped in town to eat lunch) and tried to close our son.
One said, others were on their board and could be offered if he took too long.
One said, if you go on another visit we feel you are stringing us along, son rejected offer the their offer the next day.
I would ask them what they expect. If early in your process, i'd tell them you are listening to offers and visiting schools to make the best decision for you. If late and you are mulling a few keys offers over....a few days to talk with parents etc and pull the trigger.
I have heard from others that some just want to know where you're at the in the process and others tell you and show your son a board with players and and offers and tell you whomever accepts first gets the offer.
Always ask.
The key is, to know in advance of a discussion whether you would commit to that program if they offered. And if your answer might depend on whether the money reached a certain threshold, you need to have that all sorted out in your head before you start talking.
Then, you need to practice in advance just how you might respond if the offer is not exactly what you want. (If it is, the answer is easy: "YES!")
Example: "Coach, I really appreciate that offer, and I'm very excited about it. Because this involves our family finances, I do need to discuss this with my parents. Could you tell me when you need to know my answer?"
It does depend on timing, i.e. what their needs are, how late in the process it is, etc. Ryno was told a variety of different things, including, "We have offers out to other guys, and the first one to accept gets it."
You should not feel rushed in this decision. If a school really wants your son chances are he has at least several weeks to months before they move past him.
I agree you shouldn’t feel pressured or rushed. The timing of each recruiting class can be reviewed by looking at commitments on PG website. Granted that’s not guaranteed to be 100% correct but I do know one school we were looking at early on had 3 other commits at the same position in sons class. Also the day we received the offer that we eventually took I was aware of their commits for sons class and the year prior and knew that it was a much better fit and the school still had more of their $ for sons class available. 11.7 scholarships is tight when schools are bringing in 13-15 kids a year
My 2018 was given offer at beginning of this summer before senior year. Son asked for a deadline and was told that the end of summer would be great, but after that they had to make other offers for his position and at that point could not guarantee it. The head coach was very honest and upfront, made a great impression with my son as well as our family. He committed to them mid summer. D2.
Midlo Dad posted:Always ask.
The key is, to know in advance of a discussion whether you would commit to that program if they offered. And if your answer might depend on whether the money reached a certain threshold, you need to have that all sorted out in your head before you start talking.
Then, you need to practice in advance just how you might respond if the offer is not exactly what you want. (If it is, the answer is easy: "YES!")
Example: "Coach, I really appreciate that offer, and I'm very excited about it. Because this involves our family finances, I do need to discuss this with my parents. Could you tell me when you need to know my answer?"
Good info above! I would also add that if the school that offered is not your #1 school then communicate to the #1 school of your offer. By this time in the recruiting process, more often than not, a player will have their list of preferred schools. If #3 on your list offers, then communicate to programs #1 and #2 and let them know "coach, I have an offer(s) from other school(s) that I am considering, but #1 is where I really see myself playing. Can you tell me where I fit in your recruiting class? " If responded to, you will hopefully know if there is any interest but if not then the current offer may be considered sooner than later.
