For older boy (2015):
Until he was in 14 I had got to coach he and his friends. Only travel that we did was to Waco for state LL tournament.
14U year we were on a "local" travel team. Only travel was to Colorado for Triple Crown WS. Cost was about $700 for fall and $1,600 for spring. We made the trip to Colorado our family vacation so that money was going to be spent either way.
15U year we moved organizations and were on the "travel" 15U team for that org. We played mostly local in DFW, but did travel to Lubbock and College Station I believe for a couple of long weekends. About $2000 for the summer in team fees and uniforms.
16U and 17U were about the same, with travel to Georgia (2), Florida, Missouri (3).
18U year was mostly local trying to get to Farmington. Went to Enid 2 times, and then to Farmington. $1500 in fees and uniform.
Lessons were off and on, but probably less than $500/year. Summer "baseball strong" was $600/year for 3 summers.
No showcases (as we had nothing to showcase other than getting kids out) and only 1 camp at Baylor.
So I'd estimate before travel we were in about $15K. Most family vacations have become baseball vacations, so whatever we spent on trips would have probably been spent on the family vacation. After 4 years at school we will come out ahead, and the memories are worth it even if we didn't.:
Youngest (2022, or 14u now):
Started in an organization at age 10. Fees for the fall were around $600 and $1500 for the spring. No travel that "required" overnight stays, although if we had an 8am game the next morning, I usually could be talked into spending the night, as everyone always slept while I drove anyway. Uniforms were 300 or so.
Stayed in that org for 3 years until 13u season.
Last year (13u) and this year he is on a "funded" team and the only expenses we have are travel related. We went go Georgia once last year, and will be going back 2 times next year and at least 1 time to Florida. All other tournaments next summer will be local. But next year's travel will also be our family vacations.
We have him in yoga ($50/month unlimited classes), speed/training ($200/month), batting 6 months a year @ 120/month (once a week) with older boys ex head coach. So we are in for about $4000/year.
Anticipate that it will get more expensive the next few years in training and lessons, and a showcase or 2.
But the bottom line, both kids don't get in trouble, realize that we are helping them live their dream, appreciate everything that we do for them, and wake up every morning feeling good about themselves and their relationship with their mom and dad.
They will be and are good kids/men from the lessons that they've learned on and off the field dealing with success, failure, friends, opponents, parents, coaches, and adults. They are both mature beyond their years, and have experienced alot in a short time (relatively speaking).
Somehow I always think that some of this s/b tax deductible, but that is just the CPA in me thinking.