We might have "done it all wrong" too, but it all worked out. If you're future P5 or strong D1, top teams will be recruiting you at 15U. If you're not at that level, you will most likely be recruited for college in 17U summer, in which case, here is what I would look for at 15U:
- can you talk to the coaches/organization head about recruiting? Will they be honest with you, and say "he is not ready to be recruited now, and that's why we are putting him on the C team"? And are you willing to pay for that? What will you get out of being on the C team? Can they tell you that?
- will he have coaches who will help him improve? and how will they do that? can your son talk to the coaches about playing? (we had one very knowledgable coach who was reluctant to give any advice, which was very frustrating). Does your son like the coaches?
- will he be with other boys who have similar aspirations for HS and college, and who are working to those ends? My son definitely benefited from playing alongside kids with baseball ambitions.
- will he get decent playing time? how does the team manage playing time?
- what tournaments will they play in, and why are they playing in those?
My son was always on the B team, but was asked to play in some select tournaments with the A players. The B team went to the same big tournaments as the A team, and did about as well. A fellow parent, early on, told me to ask about that, so we did, although we didn't know what it meant. In hindsight, those tournaments were probably only necessary for one or two players' recruiting for either team. On the other hand, as I've said before, we didn't have that many choices, and so this organization was a good option at the time.