Take this for what you want.
I was texting a very prominent college HC in a power conference a few days ago and I asked him about HS recruiting in today's world.
His response: "It's tough, better be a stud."
So, better be honest about the answer. If you're not honest, brutally honest, you're going to be in a world of hurt.
I return to one pretty sure fire way - albeit available to a very small minority of players (56 to be pretty exact) - to be recruited AND have a chance to develop AND play college D1 baseball. Be a STUDENT, be an excellent HS student, taking the most difficult classes your HS offers, get top grades in those classes, and do whatever it takes to score well on the ACT/SAT.
You don't need to play nationally; you do need to develop the best individual baseball skills your money can buy.
Then, as a rising sophomore, find out where the Ivy league coaches will be, and show up there.
For most here, the study habits needed to accomplish this are already baked in; but, for parents of kids below 9th grade, you can do it. Don't be blinded by whatever is happening in the teen/sub-teen baseball world; this is a marathon, not a sprint and the multiple goals - top HS academic performance and top individual skill development can be successfully accomplished.
And, whatever brass ring (summer ball at the Cape, pro-ball) you wish for during the journey, can be accomplished - if he is one of those 56ish.
Just one anonymous guy's random opinion.