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I posted a couple of weeks ago about the apparent lack of interest in my son and was given advice to be more pro-active. I told my son it was time to get busy and start writing those letters. WoW! He picked out alot of colleges (more than I thought he'd really spend the time getting around to contacting-but he did them all)and started his letters-he actually had a ball once he got going-looking at the websites, rosters,etc. He picked some schools that I knew were really longshots for him (Ivy League!) but he said he just wanted to see if they might respond. This past week he's gotten 7 responses back-yes, they're questionaires, form letters, etc.-but he is so excited to get them. A few have been more personal than others and two were from those "longshots" (he's a very good student but Ivy League? I don't see it Smile.) Every day that's the first thing he asks me-Any letters?(or e-mails) It's motivated him to write even more-told him that's fine but he's still got to do his homework too! Well, sorry this is so long but I just wanted to thank everyone for the advice-I don't know what will come of all of this but for right now, it's a blast! Thanks again!
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And ... tell your son to stay focused on keeping up that GPA and doing well on the SATs. There's nothing worse than a kid with great atheletic ability having dreams of playing ball at some top universities ... then finding those doors closed to him not because he doesn't match up on the field, but because he just wouldn't stand up to the academics. Tell your kid there's no do-overs in life, especially at key junctures of your life, and he won't want to be looking back ten years from now wondering "what if" he'd only studied a little harder for those tests or worked on that report a little longer instead of going to the movies with his friends.

Having good grades means he will have more choices ...
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