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I have tried to keep my distance and allow the male moderators of the forum to establish the ground rules there, because after all, the sign on the door does read: Men Only. I did step in briefly to help when some of the content was clearly outside the bounds of this site's G-rating, but have tried to stay at arm's length about matters of politeness and welcoming of "guests". But several of the moderators have graciously contacted me asking for my opinion on matters, and some agreement has been reached about how order might be restored.
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The short version of the story is:
A new sign is posted on the door of the Men Only forum, exactly like the one that has always been on the Players Only forum:
"This forum is for Men Only. Players and Women, please stay away -- there are plenty of forums for you to post in."
For the time being, I have two requests:
1. That "non-men" try to honor that sign most of the time, and
2. That the occasional "uninvited guest" be treated with civility, or in other words be treated according to the basic Board Manners of this entire site.
The long version of the story is...an analogy:
Picture the mom and dad who sometimes invite a few other couples over to watch the Super Bowl, or invite a whole family or two over for a 4th of July picnic - those analogies are most of the general forums on this site. (And of course they all talk about baseball.)
The wife invites her friends over for a wine-tasting party and asks the husband to make himself scarce so they can talk about their interests - including their baseball-playing sons. Dad pokes his head in once to tell her he's running an errand, cracks one joke but gets away with it 'cuz he's pretty sweet - that's the Ladies Only forum.
The teenage son has a some friends over and asks mom and dad if they can "give him some space" in the family room - that's Players Only.
And here is the Men Only forum: the dad invites his friends over for a poker game one Saturday night and says "Hon, I hope you don't mind if it's just us guys". The mom pokes her head into the den once during the poker game, and peering through a little cigar smoke asks her husband if he knows where the (whatever she's looking for) is. He says he hasn't seen it, she respects his time with the guys, they go back to playing poker and telling tall tales about HS football scars, etc.
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So, that's my little story for the day! Anyone for a wine tasting party?
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Julie