"I don't know about "D1 status" being important, but would you ask a football kid why he didn't go to North Dakota State and win a couple FBS national titles instead of going to Indiana??? I doubt it. Not chance of a National Title at Indiana...but I doubt too many guys would have a tough time deciding between those two choices."
Well, I don't think that was my example, but sure, if the player were recruited to both, had a full scholarship to both, with equal playing time opportunities at both, and the educational opportunities were equivalent, and both were a "fit," I would ask that question? However, some place in there will be a rub. That is not the post I made, though.
As to the second point, college baseball can be filled with memorable and lifetime experiences. Our son played D3 at the top levels, and got drafted and had a really nice Milb career (other than when injury issues impacted his performance.)
Before he got to Milb, he played with great Summer league teams in filled stadiums in New England including games against the very best-Team USA. While the thrill of being on the mound at A&M or in a filled park in New England are not exactly the same, they are memories of competing, which is not my question.
I tried to be quite careful in my post. I am not referencing those at D1 who get innings. I am talking about the 40% or so outside the Power 5 (maybe more than 40%) who pay the full cost of attendance and don't get innings. Knowing these decisions are quite personal, I am not sure sitting for 56 games and paying the full cost of attendance creates too many "memories" which are memorable. But that is just one perspective. I made my thoughts known to understand other perspectives, especially in the context of this thread that "more" D1is better.