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Originally posted by baseball168:
Thanks again for the advice. I want to clarify why I started this discussion. As a freshmen, my son was MVP of both the JV baseball and basketball teams. It seemed he'd go up to varsity in both sports, but did not in basketball. He has heard that he will be named the MVP of the JV league, and the varsity coach has asked him to come up to varsity for the playoffs and play a signficant role. In no way am I telling him not to play basketball, I love it. My question was simply whether or not he should tell the coach he would play varsity basketball for the playoffs (and miss possibly 3 weeks or 6-8 games of baseball) or simply decline and get to varsity baseball. My question was more of a specific situation, but has sparked a very intriguing discussion. I think, personally, that it's ridiculous to tell a kid not to play multiple sports. If you put that much pressure on him, it's as if he's a professional athlete without getting paid.
baseball168,
Let me give you my two cents worth of opinion from a coach's perspective.
Like most coaches, I want to see my players on the baseball diamond from day one. However, that does not always happen because sports overlap, especially during playoff time. Also, we face injuries, illness, grade problems, family issues, school orchestra commitments, you name it. That all takes kids away from us at one time or another, and there is nothing we can do about it. It's just a fact of youth sports these days, and I am coaching a high school sport within the larger framework of high school curriculum, activities, community and family issues, etc.
In your case, it is still basketball season until the last day of playoffs. Your son should honor his commitment to basketball until it's over. After all, he made the decision to play in the first place. The baseball team will be fine until he arrives, maybe sooner, maybe later. If he is as good as you say, I'm sure the baseball coaches will welcome him with open arms whenever he is done with his basketball commitment. Most high school programs eagerly await its best players, and understand overlapping school commitments. Most coaches want to win, and we will place the best players on the field whether they play basketball or not.
Hopefully, for your son's and his team's sake, he is finding time to throw and hit so he prepares himself for when he turns out for baseball. The biggest mistake basketball players make is not getting their arms in shape prior to turning out for baseball. Then, they are set back by sore arm syndrome (out of shape).
Ultimately, it's your son's decision. If he is not going to stick it out for the duration of the basketball season, he shouldn't play in the first place. That's not fair to his school, coaches, or teammates. Like I said, his baseball team will survive until he gets there.