This article has much in common with what separates good baseball players from also-rans imho. The following quote really hit home with me, love to hear your thoughts...
http://online.wsj.com/article/...07021339210488.html?
quote:Almost all the men who survived possessed one common quality. Even in great pain, faced with the test of their lives, they had the ability to step outside of their own pain, put aside their own fear and ask: How can I help the guy next to me? They had more than the "fist" of courage and physical strength. They also had a heart large enough to think about others, to dedicate themselves to a higher purpose.