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Originally posted by thats-a-balk!:
It is just so amazing to me that so many posters have to question someone who has a bad experience. Whether it be high school or college, some always have to take the side of the coaches or the system. Most are the posters who are considered "old timers" and who's kid has been successful.
I wasn't questioning I was trying to figure out what exactly the scenerio was. The reason us "old timers" may question is because we have been there and seen more than those who have not had kids been recruited or stepped foot on a college baseball field. Unfortunetly or fortunetly, those of you will learn that someday, hopefully not with a situation such as this one. Many of us will try to steer you in teh right direction, but I can assure you that there are many things you and your player have to learn on your own.
I am not going to take anyone's side, but I am strongly going to agree with PG. Lots of names dropped here and only ONE side. A coach should not be judged by what happened by hearing ONE side on a message board. I am thinking of the time when UF coach had to take control and let players go last summer, what a bad guy facing 46 on roster with a new transfer rule in effect. Once the whole story came to light, he wasn't such a bad guy anymore.
I am not taking a side because we all perceive things differently, and what may appear to be a player that was screwed over may actually be real life in college baseball. But I will not call Bob out for what he has experienced. Myabe once yu are given sifferent opinions, you may see things differently, I know it was your son and it becomes personal.
Couple of more things to clarify, you mentioned he played/signed with U of A, then was stated there was no spot for him, there has to be if he signed an NLI. There doesn't have to be if he walked on. And your son had to have known that there were others in front of him. VH is not the only coach to send players to other programs to get in playing time while they await their turn, it happens ALL of the time. I'd rather my player given an alternative option than to sit, whether at a smaller D1 (now that's harder because of new transfer rules) or a JUCO. You mentioned he got 15K (was it him) yet no playing time. Did you feel that his scholarship amount meant he would be the starter? This confuses me because $$ doesn't mean you have a start.
Coaches do NOT like their players leaving and then trying to get back into the same conference at another program. In fact many who release you will give you stipulations. Coach Rooney is a stand up guy, but did a flag go up because the player was once at Arkansas? If the original coach found this out, yes, he most likely would be ****ED. IMO there are things you do and don't do. Too many paths to cross, everyone knows everyone else's business. If he sent word out to programs not to take your son, well, unfortunetly, coaches, even rivals, often stand together. Is it right, I have no clue. You may think coaches don't communicate, wrong.
Your son wants to get drafted, often times those players that move frequently lose consistancy in their game (my opinion on that) having to adjust to new coaches, new team, new school, new coaches system. And he had an issue last fall. Try to go with the flow and not beat your head against the wall and lay blame to your son not playing because of what happened, he has another year to play, and if he is as good as you state and gets playing time, he just migh make it.
Good luck.