This thread is an example of what's wrong with this country. An in-the-moment reaction that caused ZERO physical harm is treated like it's a defining moment.
Did he screw up? Of course. Does it define him? Of course not.
I defy anyone on this site to tell me they've never screwed up, and it makes me sick that something as harmless as this gets people (especially MEN) all riled up and on their soapboxes.
Back when men were allowed to be men, a guy like Ty Cobb would've probably punched the fan in the mouth. And lived to survive.
Today our "Doctors" would call Ty Cobb a bully and run him out of baseball.
Lord, help us.
Can't say I disagree with you, but it's the world that the baby boomer's created. Like it or not, it is too far ingrained in this society. Sick, sad world. However, you went WAY too far back with the Cobb example. Outside of a book or movie, that's as close as we will ever get to those hard nosed (basket case) figures. Do you realize how many odd looks I get from not making my kids wear helmets when riding bikes or scooters in the neighborhood? With me even mentioning it here on this site, I guaranty you a few people are ready to p!ss and moan about it.
With all that said, exactly when would you say men were allowed to be men? Back in Cobb's day? I feel it wasn't too far ago personally. You know, a couple of decades ago when your neighbors would take a switch after you and your parents would back them up. When a teacher called home and you KNEW you were about to be begging for mercy. Those days are long gone. Now what?