I have read this post with much interest and want to now add some comments...as a reference, son is now in his sophomore year at a (what they call) elite academic D1 school...
1- on the topic of professors available to talk...Son has had professors available any time to talk and exchange ideas and ask questions; it is an open invitation if needed. In fact during freshman year, many professors ate lunch with students in the freshman cafeteria. Son talked to them when needed, but they were 'always' available.
2-on the topic of getting to school that otherwise...Let us don't forget that all in this forum have kids that are also athletes. And that onto itself means that they are students that have to spend many hours refining their sport. Now if a son or daughter excels in an athletic sport and is a great student, should they be penalized or criticized because of it if the sport helps them into a school? When my son applied to his school, there were over 37K applications, to a school that accepts 2000 and really takes 1600+ (bc of housing) and if his efforts put through 14 years of athletics gives him an additional 'hook', well, I think he's earned it. High academic schools as mentioned by fenway and goosegg, will not admit kids that do not pass the admission hurdle. In addition to being good baseball players, the have to be good students. It is just hard as hell to get into these schools period. In my son's year, there were like over 4k valedictorians and many many hundreds of perfect SAT scores. But not many can hit a 90+ baseball coming at them. As far as I am concern, our kids have earned the hook. if a kid does not have the grades, he will not get in. Also, don't forget that coaches want to win and get good players.
3- on the topic about pressure on grades ... Kids that get accepted to these schools have the chops to succeed in an academic environment; it just happens that they are also ball players. Freshman year they are a little confused because of D1 baseball, the new school environment and "all" the time they have to dedicate to school work and baseball-it is overwhelming for them at the beginning but these kids are smart enough to adjust. My son did very well his freshman year and is doing ok with 3 A's and 1 B+ this semester. But if you ask him, he will tell you that it is a "lot" of work. These kids want to excel in the field and in the classroom, that is in their DNA.
4- on the topic of political correctness... Who cares!...These kids are with thousands of others that have different beliefs, whether political, religious or other. The important thing is that they learn to coexist with others. One thing that I learn from my father is that you never argue about three things, one is religion, two is politics, and three is with the other person that wants to pay for dinner (let them pay if it makes them happy). These kids are in an environment that is dictated by their surroundings and by what some students are attracted to; some people are vegan, some are vegetarian, liberals or conservatives, and on and on. They key is to understand and respect everybody's opinion and beliefs, including politics. So let's don't worry about the politics in the school, but try to understand everybody's point of view, and in our case, play baseball and get better at it.
My son has his own thinking, and I admire that. Most colleges now a days are very liberal in general, that's just how most students are now, and they may or may not change. I can tell you this, my son has grown intellectually so much since he was a freshman at his school and I am sure that it is because of his teachers, student friends and teammates. It makes me very proud when I converse with him and exchange ideas. And that is what we should look forward to.
As it was said I believe by goosegg,if a parent a kid that has a chance to get into an elite academic school and play ball and doesn't do it because of political correctness crap, the one loosing will be the kid.