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Originally posted by Pop Up Hitter dad:
BHD, son is freshman in JC. I certainly am not pushing son, gave up long ago. I just want to be sure he knows those opportunities will end in a few short years. What he is saying doesn't go with being a pro player, which according to him is a goal. I have yet to hear one Milb,or MLB player say anything different on this site. Any of you pro ball players take a summer off????
PUHD,
Mine took his first summer off, but only because he had logged about 75 innings, the most a freshman had pitched in almost 5 years. He discussed it with his coach first, who agreed he might need some rest time, but he wasn't given a free pass to do nothing, he returned to Clemson, worked camps and conditioned in the gym, it was too late to apply to summer school, wish he had picked up some credits.
You should not force your son to do anything, it is his choice, but give him alternatives for coming home, if he doesn't want to play ball, and stick with it, online class, work to help pay for his expenses, etc. It's responsibility time.
There is no shame in your son having other interests, and if it his his GF, so be it, there is nothing you can do about it as they are on their way to becoming men, and they don't always think with their brains. However, having a GF doesn't mean end of the road for baseball, many of our players here have serious relationships, and some married. There is life outside of baseball, that is why his education right now is most important. I do agree that GF can get in the way, but interestingly enough, the ones who truely love and desire to succeed at the next level wins out over a whiney GF who doesn't like his BB commitment.
The most important thing is that YOU accept it, and someday when he looks back and wishes he had taken another direction, you will not be to blame if he is unhappy. Just tell him how you feel and let it go at that, no arguments, but lay down the law, he has to be productive in doing something this summer.