My first post got trashed as badly as any post I've seen trashed. Then people gave me advice to cut the cord trying to take care of my son by not talking to the coach. I have never talked to a coach about team issues. I have no intentions of ever talking to a coach about team issues. I'm a travel coach. I don't want to hear from parents. I've made my kids approach coaches and teachers going back to their preteen years to help them grow up.
The coach made some false accusations against my son and threatened to kick him off the team. My son will have to deal with it. I'm not intervening. Especially since intervening will get him kicked off the team. There's no recourse in this dictatorship. The lesson my son learned is don't attempt to talk to the coach unless talked to first for the next two and half seasons.
THE QUESTION: How do you feel about a coach having a closed door policy where players are forbidden to approach the coach under penalty of suspension or removal from the team?
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