Everyone’s path is different and as I read posts on this site, I am happy that ours was relatively easy. Mid D1. I don’t think it was easy because of his ability or the team he played for. It was easy because we were honest with each other about where he wanted to be and what we were able to do.
1. He definitely wanted to play D1
2. He had to maintain grades, and because of Hope scholarship in GA, in state would be a priority.
3. Any out of state offers would need to be substantial (really only looked at one out of state school which was a VERY good baseball program, loved the facilities Ect, received a nice offer, but overall financially and academically just didn’t check all the boxes.)
4. Wanted a school where he would at least have an opportunity to prove himself and play early.
5 that narrowed our search down to 4 or 5 schools that were D1 in state. My son eliminated a few of those immediately due to small things that you don’t really think about. One in particular was simply “ I played a tournament there and the gnats were awful, I don’t want to spend 4 years dealing with gnats”. I would have never thought that would be a deciding factor.
6. The ACC instate school, never showed any interest, and the in state SEC school showed a good bit of interest, but it was going to be a preferred walk on type deal. Looking at rosters, seeing who they recruited and what the seemed to look at, it was pretty clear that it would be an uphill battle and he probably wouldn’t get many real opportunities early on. He is a control pitcher and not very tall, The SEC team liked flaming throwers that were pretty tall.
6. I would have loved to see him attend Auburn, but due to out of state costs, and again it would have been an uphill battle. I think he could have walked on in the SEC and proven himself, but again it was important to him to get a chance at playing early.
7. Through s process of us talking things through honestly, he narrowed it down to just a couple of schools, with one in particular that was on top. Through a previous travel coach we arranged a visit and got an offer. The coaching staff was great, a good deal of stability in the program, coaches seemed relatively loyal to players( not a ton of transfers) and players seemed happy.
His freshman year, we really just focused on getting better
sophomore year, visited a few schools, got his first offer.
Junior year, visited more schools, the school he really liked made a small increase in his offer but were never overly demanding. I think in the end, it was just a good fit. He committed in late fall of his junior year. The team graduated/draft 8 pitchers last year, so I think he may get an opportunity early. What he does with it, is up to him, but we are looking forward to it!
Obviously, he continued to play and work, throughout the process. But I think you just really have to decide what you want, where you are truly at, be honest with each other and find the best opportunity for your situation. He started classes this summer and we are more than excited for him.
Good luck to all as you go through this journey!