Hi everyone,
Thought I'd share the conclusion of my son's college search. The last year has been such a crazy roller coaster - I thought I'd share to those who might have younger kids and wonder what it might be like! What started out as a choice between a UC (in-state, great schools, $30k'ish, no baseball) and 11 private D3s who showed interest from Headfirst... ended this way.
My son will be attending Stevens Tech in Hoboken, NJ. He has a committed roster spot as an outfielder as a freshman next fall. He is thrilled to be attending Stevens; excellent academic school, outstanding college town, near a fabulous city, and and playing for what appears to be an outstanding young coach and improving program in Coach Aldins. He'll be 3000 miles away... but we're thrilled for him.
Our "deal" was that we would support baseball/D3, but only if the $$ were comparable to the in-state costs of a UC school ($35k or so total). My son agreed to a Plan A - baseball at a strong D3 academic with aid, and a Plan B - attend a UC school and not play baseball. For those of you wondering about the critical "stats" - 33 ACT and 4.1 weighted GPA. Easy, right? Not so fast!
My son applied to three UCs, and got into only one (Santa Barbara). UC applications were at a record high, and he was rejected from Berkeley (expected) and UC San Diego (a bit of a surprise). Nerve-wracking, but his Plan B was in place. UCSB is not exactly be a "consolation prize" after all.
He applied to all 11 D3 schools that showed baseball interest in him (all from Headfirst). He was accepted at 6, wait-listed at 2, rejected at 3. Of the 6 he was accepted at, two offer "need-based only" financial aid; after the CSS, FAFSA, etc... no needs based aid other than loans were offered by those schools. So they had to be crossed off the list for financial reasons - $60k plus is just not an option for our family when he can attend UCSB for $35k.
Of the 4 schools he was accepted by that do offer merit aid... we learned it's not a guarantee! Two of them accepted him without merit aid. Turns out a 33 ACT and 4.1 weighted GPA are good enough to get in, but not quite good enough to be "best of the best" and get merit aid for some of these schools! They were high on his list, but unfortunately they also had to be crossed off.
That left two schools which did offer my son significant merit money. Two great choices on the table, right? Not quite. In February, the coach of one of the schools informed my son that two outfielders had applied ED2, were accepted, and sent in their deposit to attend - so the coach had to rescind his offer to my son for a roster spot! A D3 walk-on, though not impossible, was not what my son was looking for.
So, from the 11 on the original Headfirst list, it left him with one financially viable baseball choice and UCSB. Again, he is THRILLED to be attending Stevens - it was always on his short list.
But the moral of our story is... when it comes to D3, merit aid... keep your options open - there truly are no guarantees. And if you are in the "middle" financially (or maybe upper middle, to be fair) - meaning you make too much to get needs-based aid per the CSS profile, but not enough to be able to afford $60k/year... boy is it a difficult path to navigate.
I didn't want to give specific names of the schools that didn't work out - but feel free to PM me if you'd like more details. I want to thank everyone for all of the advice over the last year, and I hoped my post helped some coming down the line.
Oh - and by the way - I have another son - a class of 2020 baseball player / high academic - so I'll be likely be going through this yet again in 3 years, with a lot more knowledge about the process!!!
Steve