I know you already know the answer to this. But for any inexperienced parent that doesn't ...quote:Then I'm a coach's dream, I never talk to the HC. Should I put this on the questionnaire?
You establish your reputation with your son's current coaches every week. When a college recruiter asks the coach about the player's parents he'll be reading the coach's body language in addition to what he says and how he says it. Your son's coach doesn't want to hurt his chances. But he's not going to lie. The recruiting coach will be looking at the body language of what he's not saying or the level of enthusiam of what he says about the parents. So for any parent who isn't doing the right thing, start behaving.
Last summer my son took five 3-2 called thirds over two weeks. Even though four were very questionable calls, I snapped at him, "Swing the GD bat. You're not going to walk your way to college ball." It took his coach a few weeks to get over I yelled at him from the stands. The coach and I had a couple of talks even though I had never said anything previous to that moment. And I don't hang around practices.