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Originally posted by SBK:
Now explain how it is fair for a kid to be recruited by a school, move half way across the country, the coach gets fired and the next coach doesn’t renew the scholarship.
This is just one example and there are countless more scenarios that do not even come close to passing the “smell test”.
Simple, don't send you son across the country.
I don't agree with the NCAA on quite a bit of stuff, but we made sure that we asked the atheletic department their philosophy on transfer and coaches leaving for one reason or another. It was important for him to like his coaches and team mates, it was important for us to let him know what scenerios can take place. If for some reason we felt he would get the boot if there was a coaching change, he would be somewhere else. Know the stability of the program.
I am just learning the minor league system, if I am wrong let me know. When one is drafted and signs a contract aren't they bound by that team for a number of years. Before you sign, aren't you aware of what you are signing and why. If you haven't done what you were supposed to, don't they tell you goodbye, or trade you to someone else because they don't need you or WANT another player in exchange for you? Do you want to leave (or can you) because your manager went someplace else? Or maybe you don't l ike him. Same applies to signing with a school, you are not getting paid, but getting your education (or part) paid for. This is the trade off. They own you too!
Coaches have families to feed, coaches want changes, want new challenges, want to go back to their alma maters, where their families live. Whatever, they don't have to let anyone know if they are staying or not. It's ok for your son to want to play under that coach, they ALL want that, but let him know the possibilities exist it may not be the same coach for all four years. It is also important to chose the school where your abilities lie, if you can keep up with academics. If you are truly not division 1 material for the new coach, or borderline student, but you got in because the old coach wanted you, the next coach, I am sure will go out to find a better player for the program. Take all those things into consideration. I find the parents who have the most problems are those that know deep down inside they sent their kids off to a program where they might not belong. JMO, and not directed at anyone in particular here.
You the parent need to do your best to LEARN what it means when your son (and you) sign that NLI. If you don't like it, if you know what could happen and your son doesn't like it, don't sign it, it's about choice and being educated.
Problem is as soon as an offer comes in and it's good (or decent), at the school of your sons dreams, it's a done deal. Everyone is happy, no questions asked. You don't even think this could happen at THAT school. Nah, Coach has been there too long, coach wins all the time, people love him, he is part of that school. etc. There was a period of a few days where my sons Head Coach considered leaving, for whatever reason: WHAT, people said, leave Clemson?
IT HAPPENS. Some schools run their programs so well that coaching transitions are smooth , if the coach has left on his own desire and not because he ran the program downhill. And that school will look for a coach that can follow the philosophy of the atheletic department.
I am sorry but as said I am tired of the NCAA bashing. The NCAA has it's rules in place for a reason, even if ridiculous to some of us. Could you see year after year kids leaving to go where they want because coach left? Guidelines protect the SCHOOLS, not coach, not player.