It's really alarming and eye opening to read these health issues. Thanks CD for starting this thread. It's a great reminder to always be cognizant of our health and just what goes into our bodies. I think over time we just get "conditioned" to what we eat, how we eat, when we eat, etc. that it escapes our mindfulness and becomes habit. And one of life's dreaded phenomonom's that happens as we get older is our metabolism slows or comes to a screeching halt! Strike 2. Add in that we just get plain lazy and/or complacent that we don't even think about exercising which we KNOW is good for us on so many levels. So we just kick back the recliner and watch the American Pickers marathon all day on Saturdays! Strike 3. Oh there are many many more strikes but Im just gonna stop there! Keeping in theme of baseball if you will!
I will be 50yrs old in 3 months. Out of high school I had 3 football scholarships but, to the dismay of my dad I decided to join the Marines. (too much Gomer Pyle influence!) I was in such great shape from being an athlete that going through boot camp was really a breeze (physically only!) And for many years afterwards I stayed lean and trim. Like Coach May - life happened! I married not long after getting out of the Marines but, 2 kids later, not exercising, going to her Mom's after church on Sunday's to chow down (and I mean chow down!), stop playing for the church softball team, getting a job where I worked in an office and sat on my tush for 8hrs all day, etc. begin to eventually pack on the pounds. From the mid-90's to now I ballooned up like a swollen beached whale. Pants sizes that begin with the number 4, and shirt sizes that begin with the letter X! And not to mention feeling horrible! No energy, horrible outlook, sour attitude at work and home often, etc.
When I saw my dad 2yrs ago laying in the hospital bed after quad-druple by-pass surgery (heart disease runs in my family and my Grandfather and Uncle both died of heart attacks) that it really shook me hard and woke me up. So 2yrs later this past January I woke up and decided that I was once and for all going to take MY LIFE and HEALTH into my own hands. So me and my wife went to a Hospital Clinical dietician and actually PAID for her to consult with me and her about food, eating, mindset, exercising (again), etc. One thing she told me that I just cannot shake and Im glad is this. She said that so many people today have just gotten this motto that they Live to Eat when it should be the other way around - Eat to Live. She said once people GOT that idea what they put into their body, when they put it into their bodies, and how they got it in there that it would literally change them for the good. So that kinda goes along with what many of you said above basically. We need to learn how to Eat to Live. So she recommended that I go take a complete physical which I did and learned that I had high cholosterol, very bad gout, acid reflux/hiatal hernia, and a couple more "items". lol. Starting taking meds and for the most part got all that under control now!
The one thing that she recommended that has LITERALLY changed my life - a sleep study. My first reaction and thought as soon as the words left her mouth in January was "NO WAY" am I ever going to go do that! Forget about it! I forgot my wife was there and by days end had lined up the study whether I liked it or not. So I went. Yeah I snored a little here and there and even snorted a time or two. So what. Well when the results came back I was flabbergasted. Not only did I have sleep apnea but I had the VERY WORST you could get - Severe Obstructive Sleep apnea! I felt like I had won an award for having the best - worst case a person could have! I'll spare you the details of struggling with the first CPAP mask I was given to try and HATED it, etc. Fast forward 3 months now with a new mask, sleeping like a doggone baby, and waking up in the mornings I mean POUNCING out of the bed! I was losing up to 30% during the night and wasn't even aware of it! Now I have energy ALL day long which is now allowing me to go to the gym 4-5 times a week to walk and jog at times again. My meal portions are more in line with what I SHOULD be eating as well.
So, a VERY long story but yet short journey so far - to date I have lost a total of 45lbs and while I'd like to say haven't felt better in my life (cause I remember my Marine days!) I can say that it's just been MANY years since I've felt this wonderful. But the one thing that has attributed to my well being, energy, and just an overall great outlook on life is this CPAP mask I wear each night and the QUALITY of sleep Im now getting. Which by the way not only helps my sleeping but can and will help with weight loss and keep it off!
I'm quite a ways from where I want to be but, I now have the tools in place that are working and seeing positive results. I can't emphasize enough about some of the suggestions you guys/gals above mentioned. It begins with a mindset and just plain ole intestinal fortitude to win each day. Just one day at a time. It gets overwhelming to us all when we try to look at the bigger picture of weight loss, exercising, or taking back control of our lives. It starts with a single day and just win THAT day. Repeat on Day 2 and so on....
Coach May, I'd give anything to be a fly on the wall to sit and watch you devour an entire cake. My mother-in-law makes perhaps the world's best German chocolate cake from scratch and its ALL I can do now to turn my back and walk outside to eat an apple. But to me that's winning the small battles during that day of war.
Man my fingers are almost knubs from typing all this! Sorry for the length of it. Just got carried away and motivated at the same time when I read all your replies.
YGD