Auntie,
Please don’t take these conversations as “mean” as I’m sure no one intended them to be such. I remember the first time I posted on the HSBBW I felt like I had done or said something wrong. The internet, while it can provide us with a lot of information it also lacks emotion and comes across harsh at times. The little emoticons
do provide some insight into the intent of the poster but even at that it lack the smile and the eye contact necessary to convey the intent.
For instance I can say ---- Look another new member ---
Or I can say ---- Look another new member ----
They same the same thing but can be taken differently.
Let’s start over.
Welcome to the High School Baseball Web. I think it’s great you are involved in your nephew’s baseball and we appreciate you asking about the NLI. We are also happy that your nephew has found a place that he can play at the next level.
The recruiting ride is known as a roller coaster because of the ups and downs and unusual situations pop up from time to time. I’ve been here for a few years and the situation you describe is unique and normally these unique questions or situations do generate some unusual responses. Even if it were a simple question you might get some unusual answers.
Please forgive us for being blunt but most of the time that is the best approach especially when it takes as long as it does for someone like me to type out a response.. Congratulations to your nephew and we hope you continue to post here on the HSBBW. You will eventually be our resident expert on the NLI and the LI and can explain the differences between the two.
Fungo