Hi Auntie,
Please don’t take some of the things they are saying here too hard. I think that for the most part you will find the posters are only trying to help.
As far as not signing for money, well let’s just say my son could be the poster child on what
NOT to do in regards to getting seen, recruited, and drafted.
Long story, but the point of this story is my son signed for
books only with a D-I. This usually means the school wants the player to see if he is going to develop into a good player (probably red-shirt first year) or to keep them from being picked up by some other school.
I remember a certain scout watching my son this last spring during his high school senior year and he would ask the same question just about every time he saw him play, “And they only gave him books? He even offered to ask the coach to increase the scholarship amount if my son wanted to go to school instead of pro. Nice guy!
So, don’t feel like you can “only” be a good player if you are getting a “big” scholarship. However, you can be taken advantage of, also. JMHO
As far as the paper goes, why not just say that he signed with HIS school of choice and that you don’t feel that discussing the amount of his scholarship is appropriate.