You know what? I'm the guy on the other side of this debate for gate fees. I'm not trying to single anyone out with this post but if you get offended then yes I'm talking about you so get over it.
I'm sick and tired of parents / fans griping and complaining about gate fees. How can you have such unrealistic expectations that everything should be free? At our events it costs $5 to get in and yes if you attend all 23 games (home and away) we have in most sports you're going to spend $115 for the entire season for one sport. What do you think we do with that money? It doesn't go into anyone's pocket - it goes to pay for many many things. First it pays for officials. For soccer one official costs $61 and we have three so each game we are spending $183 per game. For 12 home games that will be almost $3000. Next we have equipment and that will be in the $3-4000 range for the season. Next we have uniforms we have to get every 3 - 4 years so each year we have to take money and set aside to pay for that huge bill when it comes around. Next we have gate and concession workers to pay for which is several hundred dollars by the end of the season. Next we have to pay for field upkeep which can be several thousand dollars as well. Lastly, we have to pay for security because idiot parents can't behave themselves and we have to sometimes kick them out. That will be around $60 per game. Hopefully, you can see how expensive it is to run just one sport. Now open that up for volleyball, basketball, baseball, softball and wrestling - all of these sports get to charge a gate so they help offset their costs and sometimes even make a little bit of money. Then we have the non-revenue sports like cross country, tennis, track and golf. Granted they aren't very expensive but they don't generate a single dime of profit. As the AD I want our teams to be super successful because that's what they are supposed to do but it's also because people come to watch winners. That means we get to make money off them to help pay the bills. So if it's this expensive to run an athletic program for sports that at best make a marginal profit how do we do it? Let me just say "thank goodness for football". Yes it's the most expensive sport but they make so much money they pay for themselves, the non-revenue sports and help out the other revenue sports since they barely make profit. Our football team will probably finish with one win this year because we're just not that good yet we will make enough money off them to still pay for everything.
So what does all this have to do with the original issue of people complaining about gates? Well if that's how a high school operate then imagine how much tougher it is to use a public facility. You have to probably pay a field rental fee which can be pretty steep. Because they have to pay for much the same things we do - officials, gate keepers, concession workers, stock concession stand, light bill and insurance to protect themselves from people suing if they get hurt.
Some people have said to put the entry fee into the price of being on the team. OK so how will that work? Do you find out how many people are in their family and charge that way? Example - Johnny comes from a family of 4 but Frank comes from a family of 7. So does Johnny pay less because he comes from a smaller family? What if you have a kid who's parents have divorced and remarried with kids from the new marriages - how would you factor that in? Then what about extended family - are you going to ask grandma and grandpa how many games they plan on attending and charging that? What do you do if they can now attend extra games or attend less games than they said they could - do they get a refund now?
You may think these questions / situations are ludicrous but I have been around some of the dumbest and shady people after becoming AD where I have no doubt these questions would come up. Once they come up you have to deal with them. Who in their right mind would want to keep up with all that on a team with 20 players? Yes these are some outlandish examples but people are very capable of trying to get out of paying what they should pay.
Think of it this way - the $800 (or whatever) just gets you on the team and that's it. It doesn't guarantee you any playing time and it doesn't guarantee you don't have to pay gate fees. Stop trying to make it be about cheating us out of money.
You're tired of being "nickled and dimed"? That's cool - I'm tired of listening to people gripe about being nickled and dimed while I have huge bills to pay. But yet I have to put up with people who gripe about the cost OR try to sneak in OR who do sneak in yet openly lie about having a ticket but threw it away / lost it. Please you people need to shut up and pay or stay out in the parking lot.