My son has arrived at the proverbial "fork-in-the-road" in terms of a potential move to a new team as he transitions to 14U in the Fall. Here are both scenarios regarding travel ball team choices - I've always received no-nonsense honest feedback on HS Baseball web from many that have been down this road before so, as always, thanks in advance.
Team 1 (Current Team) Independent team with a core of players that have been together many years. My son joined the group a year ago and will be attending high school with many of these players. The emphasis is 100% on winning and/or getting deep in tournaments and the team usually does. Good reputation as being one of the stronger teams locally. Coaches are great people - Many parents on the team however have a long standing relationship with the coach (i.e. talking to the coach from the bleachers during a game regarding their son - "see if my junior's wrist is really hurting him before you pinch hit for him"). Also, a ton of yapping to the umpire as well as their own sons during the game. I don't get the warm fuzzy from this type of behavior at all and I feel (do not know for sure) that there are internal discussions between certain parents and coach about players/strategy.......but do I need to lighten up?
Team 2 (prospective team) Larger organization that runs an academy system with teams from the 14U level up to U18. Very good name recognition - teams in organization win their share of tournaments but definitely not a juggernaut at the 14u and 15u levels. The focus appears to be on preparing players for showcases and big tournaments as the organization has helped a multitude of their players get into college programs. It appears that the coaches in this program are seasoned in helping kids navigate the recruitment system. One of the main coaches/directors of the program has an A+ reputation. I watched a couple of their games and did not hear a peep from any parent.
As far as Junior goes, he is torn between the potential move for many reasons. One big reason is that he is not playing his primary position on his current team (not even a lick of time there even during pool play games) and he wants to have at least one or two innings there on occasion. Not a performance issue, simply there are players already engrained due to the many years the team has been together so it is a tough nut to crack. He has discussed with coach to no avail....I will not talk to coach as I feel this is something my son needs to learn to navigate.
I hope I do not come off sounding like a knucklehead. My son has only played on 2 travel ball teams since 10U and he doesn't (as well as my wife and I) take switching teams lightly. Therefore my reaching out to this community. Thanks for the feedback!
WCP