Perhaps the world is rushing too fast and no one wants to be left behind. (?)
Technology, the internet, video games, the media,....information super highway,
equipment advancement, records being broken, etc. etc.
( Not saying I like it. I'm much more of a sandlot kinda' gal myself. Very grateful my kids lived on an Air Force base, out in the middle of no-where. There wasnt much but some air plane hangers, ( we didn't have a computer yet ) a small fishing
creek crick, a swimming pool, and a baseball field that they rode their bikes by to & from school everyday. It was hot, dry, & dusty, and my boys learned ( from an amazing aiplane mechanic/coach ) about a game called
baseball. )
My just turned 13 year old daughter hasnt had that type of experiece. Upon entering 7th grade this year, she eeked by and made the school volleyball team. We quickly realized she was waaay behind the power curve, experience wise. Who knew? These girls were 12 for Pete's sake. Should I have started her at 8?
( We were busy doing the pink ballerina and tap thing at that time. ) Should I have mommie guilt?
Her 7th grade team mates had all played tournament volleyball and played quite competitivly. Next year at 8th grade if you can't serve overhand and spike, you don't make the team. EEK!
After her 1st school team season, we were thrown into a very short period of tournament team tryouts ( where you had to pay by the way, to even
tryout,..whats up with that? )
Then bam,...she makes a team, they want $800-$1200+ ( How MUCH-egads!??), volleyball shoes $80, custom made uniforms $$$$, traveling fees, matching warm up bags, wam-bam,....zip zing,..100 mph and were off. Pant pant ,...spin.
There was no slow approach, no Walmart volleyball shoes/cleats, no easy practices where you learn about being a better human being and not only about being an olympic competitor, geesh!!!
It is what it is,..but I have a strong feeling she missed some on some of the more important life fundamentals, that her older brothers got the pleasure of learning, the ol' fashioned way.