So we find ourselves in a bit of a sticky situation, with unquestionably bad timing. Today is the first day of Varsity Baseball tryouts - starting a week early this year. My son is a junior and will be trying out for Varsity at a very large, very competitive public school. As a right handed pitcher who can barely touch 80 mph, he is very much "on the bubble."
After fall baseball had finished up at the end of November, he had "rested" his arm, other than going to Power Throwing at a local pitching/baseball training center twice a week, and hadn't thrown at all over Christmas break. Three weeks ago, he went to the training center and while throwing weighted baseball, complained about arm pain. We rested it for a week, no throwing at all.
He went back a week later, and the pain returned. I called a specialist, and we had an MRI done. This process took about ten days all told (second complaint, get/go to appointment, schedule/go to MRI, get report) and here is the diagnosis: "Stress reaction to bones connecting Ulnar Collateral Ligament with chronic UCL thickening."
Prescription: "Rest two more weeks followed by video throwing analysis/physical therapy, return to throw over next 4-6 weeks anticipated."
This has caused a lot of angst with my son, and despite my admonition that he keep this quiet for now, he basically blabbed it all over and now everyone is hearing that "he is injured and needs Tommy John surgery." (He's a bit of a drama queen, and remember the old game "Telephone"? Yeah, that.)
It was my hope to portray this as a "tweak" if anyone asked, that he has rested it and he should be good. Be smart during the tryout (which is truly wishful thinking, "smart" and "good judgment" being labels wholly inappropriate when applied to my son), stretch out and warm up properly, and gas it only when needed and see if he can make the team by hook or by crook. Then, if he makes the team, come in with the doctor's note (properly dated, of course) showing that he needs the rest and rehab. Good to go in six weeks, hopefully. If at any time during the tryout he feels pain, shut it down, tell the coach, and hope for the best at that point.
I know we should shut him down NOW and look to the summer. As a junior, if he makes varsity he'd be last on the pitching depth chart. If pushed down to JV he'd be one of the top three. Making the team, as a late bloomer (didn't make freshman team, grew six inches in a year and made JV the next year), is important to him. He draws much of his personal identity and self esteem from that. Not making the team will be devastating to him - there will be many pieces to be picked up. I've always told him that we're playing a long game here. He's 6'2", 140. He's still growing. He needs to bulk up and get stronger, and he will. The fastball MPH will come with that. He's not going to get noticed as a junior anyhow, at least not during the season. Perhaps over the summer, with careful selection of showcases and college camps, he'll get some people to notice him and start tracking him, but there is nothing that can happen this season, given where he is right now and the talent ahead of him, to enhance his chances of playing after high school.
So he's going to go for it. It didn't seem like the arm was in any immediate danger and he's said he's going to be smart about the tryout. He's going to stretch and warm up properly, not gas his arm just to show off to his buddies, and save it for the bullpen with the coach. He may throw an inning or two to live batters, but he isn't going to be throwing 100 pitches over six innings.
I know I'm whistling past the graveyard here. Last season on JV he threw five innings over three months. His arm strength deteriorated so much in season that it took almost two months to get it back up to speed in summer ball. If he makes Varsity I expect things will play out much the same. If I thought he was in immediate trouble I'd shut him down for sure.
So ... what would you do? How honest should we be with the coach? I don't think he'd be willing to take him "on spec" or based on the JV coach's recommendation, or that he'd be willing to push my son's tryout six weeks down the road. As I said, he's on the bubble, and this is a really competitive baseball school. Have any of you gone through this, or had friends go through this?
As I said, this has caused a lot of angst around the house. I'd appreciate some thoughts/perspectives on things.