Originally Posted by TPM:
wanttoknow,
I am not here to argue, but I think that you should read over your posts. Sounds like sour grapes, JMO.
That big something or other showcase is the PG Woodbat Tournament, not being able to name that event somehow tells me that you are not familiar with some of the more important venues in college recruiting and scouting. PGStaff is the owner and founder of Perfect Game. He really is telling you like it is, really.
Tournaments all over the country cost teams about the amount you mentioned, why do you suppose that is? Permits? Umpires? Insurance? Salary? Also we have played tournaments at all times, early morning, in the rain, in the heat, the cold and one time about around 12am due to rain delay. Never even thought of asking for money back, were those times not suitable for you?
350 dollars for a college showcase camp? What results did you get from that camp? You do understand that these programs run these camps to make money for their programs, not to find recruits.
The players last name is Hamilton, and everyone who knows and follows baseball knows who Josh Hamilton is.
The dirtbags ripped you off and so did another organization? Sounds like if you do not get the results that YOU are looking for you demand your money back
Maybe you should attend a PG showcase, then you can get an honest evaluation of your son and then you are able to know where is the best place to spend your money. Be prepared, they are expensive.
Try to expand your horizons past the ACC and NC. This would be in your sons best interests, I think.
Do some research on this site, which by the way has thousands and thousands of members, right now there are almost 200 reading at almost 2am (insomnia night). This site will help you to understand, I think that this will help you to understand teh recruiting process and how to spend your money wisely.
I live in FL and my son attended an out of state ACC program, so understand that you do not have to live in the same state to be recruited by an out of state program.
I am a mom (thank you keewart) and I think that you are too.
My son plays professional baseball.
Legion may be a great option.
Good luck!
TPM,
Its been a long while since I have visited this forum, since June 2013 I believe. I returned today just to unsubscribe because I am still receiving emails from this forum when someone posts a comment to this thread. However, I did scan through the comments just out of curiosity. I don't believe I saw your response to my last post back in 2013 or I would have seen my response back to you. I included your response to refresh your memory.
Even though its been 2 years, I feel strong enough to make one last comment about the subject of this thread, but more specifically, to your remarks to me back in June 2013. You made a lot of assumptions about me in your posts that I unfortunately feel the need to rectify. I hate this about me, but I care what people think of me, whether its over the internet or in person. My posts back in June 2013 were not "sour grapes" as you commented. Its crazy, but people always think when someone posts something different from what they think, they are "sour grapes". Myself and most of the others that posted their negative experiences with travel ball teams were doing just that, posting our negative experiences. And another crazy thing, people that have not had negative experience with travel ball teams think those that have is because their sons suck at baseball. Even though you stated you were "not here to argue", you were here to ridicule. Your remarks were very condescending.
You insinuated that I was not familiar with some of the more important venues in college recruiting and scouting because I could not name the PG Wood Bat Tournament. Well, at what point are we all suppose to know these things? Maybe we were not at that point yet. See, here lies the problem. Not everyone wants or cares if their son is ever recruited to play college ball. Not everyone thinks their son is going to be the next best thing in baseball. Speaking for myself, I was simply posting about my family's negative experience with a travel/showcase team. And I do not think negatively of PGStaff, I do not believe PG is involved in this scam.
Now on to your schooling of me regarding the cost of tournaments. I am well aware of the costs of tournaments. As I stated in earlier posts, my husband created, managed, and coached a travel ball team for 5 years. We know what it costs to hold tournaments as well as we have organized and managed multiple tournaments. I actually grew up working tournaments as my father was always sponsoring all kinds of tournaments including semi-pro baseball tournaments. He loved baseball but was not very athletic so he got his fix by providing the funds for others to play. The only reason we got involved with a travel ball team was because my husband could no longer dedicate the time necessary to coach and manage a team. And just so you know, we have played tournaments at all times and in many undesirable conditions. We've played in sleet and 100 degree heat. And, while playing in a tournament held at ASU, we played in the early morning mountain fog. And yes, we have played into the early morning hours due to rain delays and because of extra inning games. These games are my best memories of playing baseball. Again, you are missing the point. And to school you a little bit since your son must not have ever been on the "D" team, when playing for these teams that exist only to provide funding for their A team, when it rains, the teams don't always play in the rain because they are usually cancelled, not worth the cost of umpires I guess. That causes most to want their money back. Your condescending remarks about times not being suitable for me provides no substance to this thread's purpose.
I am well aware that colleges hold camps to help fund their programs. I'm all for that. College baseball does not get the same level of funding as basketball and football. Maybe its different where you are, but colleges also have "elite" camps, several names are used, and they use these camps for recruiting. They actually invite players. Why are you asking what results I got? Are you wanting to hear that they told my son he was not D1 material?
Again you want to portray me as someone who does not know baseball because I could not remember Josh Hamilton's last name and by stating that "everyone who knows and follows baseball knows who Josh Hamilton is". I "follow" professional baseball through which ever team I am interested in. As I've said, my dad was a huge baseball fan. I watched many Atlanta Braves games with my dad. We made many trips to Atlanta to see them play throughout the 1980s. He passed away in 1993 after battling cancer for a few years. While pursuing my career and tending to children, I no longer had time to watch professional baseball or read tabloids while sitting around the pool, which is how some people know who Josh Hamilton is. In the last 10 years, I spent more time listening to my husband teach kids how to keep their bat in the strike zone longer, when to get that secondary lead off 1st base, and learning how to read a pitcher because some will forecast the type of pitch they are about to throw. But maybe that's not "following" baseball.
You again make this thread personal by saying things like if I don't get the results I want I demand my money back. Again, you're making the worst kind of assumptions about someone and something you do not know anything about. This kind of thing happens when you make a debate personal. My son did not play for the dirtbags nor did he ever tryout for them. We were ripped off by a different showcase team. Only one team ripped us off since you are counting. Wanting my money back had nothing to do with not getting the results I wanted. We were lied to plain and simple. There was no contract or fine print to read. We had no aspirations for our son to be recruited by playing with this team. Our son was just a rising 9th grader. We put our son on this team because my husband could no longer coach a team. Our son did not tryout for this team either. He was approached by the team's owner at one of the last tournaments my husband coached. Lets just say we were told our son would get plenty of playing time at multiple positions. That's all we were looking for. We were told many lies as were other parents. I asked for my money back before the first game the team played was over.
We didn't need to attend a PG showcase to get an honest evaluation of our son. Our son was getting lessons from a sometimes Triple A/sometimes MLB player during his off seasons. We just wanted our son to play ball and to play with and against competitive ball players. You can't always get that in the local little league.
You seemed to be focused on my lack of knowledge of the recruiting process, or your perception that I lacked knowledge. I agree this site has some very knowledgeable people and who know how to debate an issue without personal insults. You keep insinuating that we needed someone to tell us that our son was not D1 material so that we would not spend money on showcase teams. You ASSUME that since I said we were ripped off by a showcase team, that our son was not as good as we wanted or thought him to be. We simply wanted our son to perform at his potential, not just at baseball, put anything and everything he involved himself with, especially academics. We are not the parents you are thinking we are. And if I needed help with recruiting, we had what we needed.
Trust me, even my pea brain knows you can be recruited to play for a team outside your home state or your home state NCAA league. I think pretty much everyone knows that.
OK so what happened with my son? Drum role please...... He went on to play for a showcase team in Va during his sophomore and Junior year of high school. Its coach was an assistant coach at a private D3 school. We paid $650 which included 2 complete uniforms. It also included great coaching and mentoring!!!! The team was capped off at 15 players with mostly pitchers sitting on the bench. My son was 10th (academically) in a class of over 500. He was bound for engineering of some sort. He was a 4 year starter (only freshmen to make Varsity) during his high school BB career. He was miserable that year because he was not with his buddies on JV. See, our son did not eat, sleep, and sh*t ball. He loved baseball but mainly because he loves the sport and because he loved playing with his friends who had all been together since elementary grades. We were approached by a coach from a small D1 school during a showcase tournament. Bottom line, our son could have played D3 or possible D2 ball. He could have gone to a JC just so he could continue to play BB. But that is not what he wanted. He is attending an out of state school that has one of the top engineering programs in the country. He left his baseball shoes on his high school BB field and never looked back. He is just happy that he still gets together with those same friends when they all come home for summers and holidays.
Now, that is what we as parents were looking for, for our son. Yes, we complained about anything that was not on the up and up or things that kept our son from achieving his potential. You just have to get over the fact that not all kids playing baseball actually want to be a MLB player. As I said, we know a MLB player and it isn't always fun. And don't assume that someone on this post that complains about a travel ball team has a son that isn't all that good of a ball player. And for the rest of the folks on this thread, there are travel ball team owners out there that will put a "spin" on what they are offering. There is no fine print, only a mom and/or dad taking a man for his word.
Congrats on your son playing "professional baseball". If that is what your son wanted then he succeeded. My son isn't playing professional ball, but I consider him to be just as successful as your son.
Take Care!
There's life after baseball!