I was wondering how long it would take for the word "snob" to appear. When someone comes on this site and says his/her son has 5 D1 offers, all from Power 5s, no one accuses them of snobbery, but mention academic excellence and people bristle! ...
I know this is a baseball site, and just like there are outliers who come here seeking information about their son who throws 95 mph, there are parents who seek help with their kid who just scored an 800 on the math section of the SAT and wonder what doors that will open. I like that this site can service both of those types of families AND a kid who gets on and asks about the pros and cons of a JUCO vs. a 4 year school.
We all bring different things to the site and while some accuse me of being a snob, I hope a few of my comments over the years have been beneficial to others. I hope we are all using all the resources available to us to help our kids make this important decision whether it is a 2 year, 4 year or 40 year decision.
Matty, IMO, you are still taking things out of context. No one is calling you a snob for mentioning academic excellence. In fact, I think the vast majority (if not all) of folks here will strongly suggest to any young man that, if money and grades allow, go with the best school you can get into.
CD's point was that, several years after graduation, if you hold a 4-yr degree from a reputable school, there will be marked value. But a prospective employer is not likely to care whether you knocked out some of your GE classes at a JC or actually took all classes all four years at said U. You are still a graduate of said U with a major in X. For many, this is an avenue that can make sense, whether it is for financial reasons, initial indifference toward a major, or a host of other reasons. For many others, going straight to the 4-yr school is absolutely the best choice for them. I completely agree with you that one of the great things about the site is that we all bring different first-hand experiences to share and offer up for consideration.
I think the "snob" sentiment is likely more tied to a perceived implication in your OP that going the JC - academic 4 yr route couldn't possibly compare to the straight academic 4-yr route. Yes, the Harvard/Yale reference was certainly a stretch since these particular schools are so far up the scale that it is a highly unlikely scenario. But I think CD was just using those school names loosely to illustrate reference to academically focused schools.
Also, I think much of this discussion hinges on the interpretation of "elite" academic schools. I have friends who have graduated from schools considered quite high on the academic hierarchy but they (mostly as football players) have shared stories of many classes that were absolute jokes.
I think the thread has brought about some great information, so definitely a worthwhile discussion.