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We chose to go another route because of the new team's success with college placement and it has a lot of state wide talent.
I don't know who your son is or what teams you've been with or are now with. But you're describing a situation that is quite common, where a local stud moves to a statewide team because that's the best vehicle for him and his future.
I think there's nothing wrong with that, and in fact I would encourage it. Just handle the relationships up front and candidly.
A move like this is actually expected. A very good local team is often the best vehicle for a player's development -- a team with a good instructor as a coach and lots of playing time. But when you get to being a sophomore or a junior -- not that you don't have to keep learning and developing -- but if you're intent on pursuing collegiate opportunities you have to pick the vehicle that gets you scouted the most.
So as not to blow our own horn, let's posit this in the context of a kid moving to the Canes. When you join the Canes, you know that where ever they go, there will be scouts, because they have talent coming out their ears. This is the kind of team you want to be on. Maybe someone will come specifically to see you. But maybe someone comes to see someone else and then notices you while they are there. This has a much better chance of happening if you play for a team that's loaded.
That's why I say, play for the best team that will play you. As long as you're not riding the pine, the loaded team is your best bet from a recruiting/exposure standpoint.
The mistake some folks make is trying to have their own team so they can be the star, or trying to have a situation where you are the focus of attention on the team. Big mistake. Even if you stand out, will anyone see it to know? And if you look like a selfish jerk, will anyone want you, even if you are quite talented?
The other mistake people make is staying with their locally based team because "he wants to play with his friends." Look, you can play Legion ball or whatever next year. Either you are serious about pursuing college ball or you aren't. If you're a go-getter, go out there and get it. If you just want to hang out and have fun while it lasts, that's fine, just be prepared for the fun to end when you get your HS diploma.