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Originally posted by bigheat27-42:
The best thing i have heard on this sunject is the plain fact that your coach makes the lineup, not your private instructor. If you aren't a coachable player, you will sit and i know i'm a player, but the thing parents should understand is too many voices in a kids ear isn't good for a player.
i have a pitching coach, i have the whole staff of high school coaches, i have a legion coach, and i have travle coaches. When someone gives me a tip, i say yes sir and try it out. If it helps, keep it. If not, then go back to what works. This summer, I was on a team with parents trying to coach from the stands and it gets too much. come game time, a player shouldn't be making drastic changes. he should be getting the job done and i don't quite know if a parent realizes what they are telling their kid isn't a rational game time correction. it just makes a kid focus on more than getting the job done
there is a time and place for a private coach and the ones i have been lucky enough to work with have helped me be better than i would be without them no doubt. but when a coach says something, the response "well my private coach says...." is unaccaptable. if you are asking them if they see it too then ok. but your private coach doesn't make the lineup.
just my .02
Outstanding post and tons of good points. The one point I like most is about having too many voices saying what to do. It can get overwhelming hearing a thousand things a thousand ways. Which leads me to the next point you made that I liked. A player needs to understand what they can and cannot do; what is and what isn't comfortable on their own. Ultimately it comes down to if the player is comfortable and it's not going to cause harm. IF those two things are good to go and the kid is having success then don't overcoach them. Let them perform.
I hardly ever and I mean ever instruct during a game. By that point it's too late and any change would be counter productive to getting good results. I may remind a player about something we worked on but outside of that they either do it or they don't do it.
The problem I see with only having one person being the instructor is the player turns into a robot. Their head is filled with this step, then this step, then this step and then this step. It's good to hear coaching from a few different sources but need to be careful that it doesn't become overwhelming. Bottom line - if they produce they stay in the lineup.
NDD - not sure I understand where you're going with the "patience is an old man's virtue."