quote:Originally posted by Fungo:
itsinthegame,quote:or who got hammered early in their college careers - and tried to make it work anyway - and then talked about it.
Wish granted...
2003 Defensivly as a freshman in college my son led the SEC in passed balls.
2004 Offensively as a sophomore my son led the SEC in strikeouts.
2005 My son was selected as 1st team all SEC catcher.
OB44,
I too was not afraid to talk aobut my son's bumps in the road early on, as many of you know he forgot how to throw strikes and made errors and even had a BALK ( I don't ever remember that in HS at all). Struggled first semester. Wanted out. Sometimes it is harder on those that are expected to produce right away and can't, because there are really big adjustments that have to be made at the next level and every player has to make them.
Mine was thrown to the wolves early on, he stuggled. It was the best thing to happen to him, in his own little cocky way he learned alot about himself and that sometimes you fail, pick yourself up and start all over again, not be ashamed, things work out for the best. And mom and dad just learned to listen and let him work things out for himself, with the help of the people who are with him everyday, not us at 600 miles away.
I imagine it's harder for the dads who coached their sons or where there after every game for the talk on the ride home what could have been improved that game.
You will learn from your son when he wants advice and when he doesn't as he moves into the season.
I know about It's son's personal struggles. Some may have given up. Great story and a great motivation to succeed.