This is always an interesting topic of discussion, though it's too bad when the discussion gets a bit rude. Thank you bbscout for always being a voice of reason and very professional. Your depth of experience and your comments here are really appreciated.
The one point that I keep agreeing with throughout the arguments back and forth is that it is a very personal decision and each player needs to decide what his priorities are.
What is your favorite food? I may be allergic to it. What is my favorite food? You may hate it!
What is your dream career? Oh, that sounds boring to me! What is the best job I've ever had? That sounds like torture to you!
There are adults who chose careers because they paid well and ended up bored and unhappy. Others chose a career that was their passion, like medicine or law, and just happened to make very good money at it. How would anyone looking from the outside know how that person arrived at their career decision, money or love?
How important is it to go to college right after high school and earn that degree? I earned a BA right after HS and have always worked in professional jobs, but never one that was directly related to my degree. My husband earned his degree in his 30s while we had two very young children and we were both working fulltime, and his degree directly earned him his current career which is an excellent fit for him and also pays well. My son is a 20-yr-old RHP who didn't really think college was right for him, but went anyway because he wanted to play college baseball. He is now halfway through his college baseball "career" and almost halfway to his degree. Let's say in a few years he was offered the following choice of careers:
$100,000/yr as a computer programmer or business manager,
$50,000/yr as a college baseball coach, or
$10,000/yr (or less) to play minor league baseball.
I know the order in which he would choose:
#1 = $10K play baseball
#2 = $50K coach baseball
#3 = $100K any non-baseball desk job
Does that make him noble for having a dream and not caring about money - or foolish? Does it make your son greedy if his choice of the jobs would be the reverse order - or wise?
It's a very personal choice, and what is right for one person is not right for another. I know that's been said before...