puma - thanks for the nice thoughts! We were beside ourselves after he said those words.
He has played all the infield positions except catcher this year. A few weeks ago, our first baseman begged the coach to play third and they relented. Thus, he got to play first for one inning.
I managed to hook a fish that was so big, it broke a 12 lb test line as I was reeling it in - and that is no fish story The interesting part was that I had just hooked another fish and was reeling it in and it jumped two feet out of the water and got off my hook. As I was reeling the line in from the first fish a second monster fish hit that eventually broke my line
quote:Originally posted by ClevelandDad:
I managed to hook a fish that was so big, it broke a 12 lb test line as I was reeling it in - and that is no fish story The interesting part was that I had just hooked another fish and was reeling it in and it jumped two feet out of the water and got off my hook. As I was reeling the line in from the first fish a second monster fish hit that eventually broke my line
Hmmm... Gotta tell ya, sounds pretty fishy to me! But great fun!
Wow - I don't believe the finality of things have set in yet. After our last out today in an elimination game, I went out and worked on the yard. You know what? I feel better all ready
Spoke to my son and he sounded ok although he said it was rough for the kids in the few moments after the game. Very emotional indeed. What a ride this has been.
I am so proud
Sorry about that.... but trying to write about it right now has brought on a rush of emotions. The highs and the lows... like night and day... you cannot have one without the other...
I may have more to write later. Here is an article from a few days ago and it captures the essence of my son so well. Obviously, his feelings at the time were to lead his team to Omaha and alas, it is not to be... Hopefully, his heart will heal in time...
http://www.thesunnews.com/174/story/918296.html
Spoke to my son and he sounded ok although he said it was rough for the kids in the few moments after the game. Very emotional indeed. What a ride this has been.
I am so proud
Sorry about that.... but trying to write about it right now has brought on a rush of emotions. The highs and the lows... like night and day... you cannot have one without the other...
I may have more to write later. Here is an article from a few days ago and it captures the essence of my son so well. Obviously, his feelings at the time were to lead his team to Omaha and alas, it is not to be... Hopefully, his heart will heal in time...
http://www.thesunnews.com/174/story/918296.html
quote:Thursday, May. 28, 2009
Bortnick's heart set on taking Coastal Carolina to College World Series
By Josh Hoke - jhoke@thesunnews.com
CONWAY -- After motoring around the bases and sliding head first into home plate for an inside-the-park home run at last week's Big South Baseball Championship, Tyler Bortnick jumped up, pumped his fist and let out a yell.
It was a rare moment of flash during a career built on substance.
Coastal Carolina coach Gary Gilmore has molded his program with players many of them a little too small or a little too slow who share his blue-collar principles. Bortnick, the team's 5-foot-10, 175-pound senior third baseman, may epitomize that mold better than any other player in Gilmore's 14 years as head coach.
"He wills himself to be the best player on our team," Gilmore said. "Whatever he weighs, a large portion of it is in his heart. We're going to miss what he brings to us in passion and desire far more than what we'll miss in ability, even though he's a great player."
Bortnick is the unquestioned heart and soul of this year's Chanticleers. Players like David Anderson, Cody Wheeler and Nick McCully have more star power, but Bortnick's desire to lead his team to Omaha is unrivaled even on the coaching staff, a point that Gilmore made on Senior Day two weeks ago.
His desire to reach the College World Series is why he has willingly changed positions twice since his junior season ended.
After playing both third base and shortstop as a freshman in 2006, Bortnick started all but one game at shortstop in 2007 and 2008. But he moved to second this year, allowing talented freshman Taylor Motter to fill his shoes, and then moved to third after Scott Woodward was injured midway through the season.
"I'm here to do whatever it takes to get this team to Omaha," said Bortnick, whose team begins its quest against Kansas today in the NCAA Chapel Hill (N.C.) Regional. "If it means I've got to play short, third, second or catcher, it doesn't matter. As long as it puts the best nine out there, I'm all for it.
"And I like being that utility guy, being able to play here and play there. Hopefully that gives me a better chance to get on the field at the next level."
Bortnick has been an integral part of the cause this season, morphing himself from a role player into one of the team's most consistent hitters.
He is batting .374 with 11 home runs and 44 RBIs, all career highs since he became a regular starter as a sophomore. Now batting cleanup, Bortnick's production at the plate has helped protect Anderson, who bats third behind Rico Noel and Adam Rice.
He spent hours upon hours many of them by himself honing his swing in Coastal's batting cages.
"The way you get better is when no one else is watching," said Bortnick, who models his game after a player with similar intangibles, Boston's Dustin Pedroia. "You can do all you want for the coaches and let them see what you do, but the only way you'll really get better is when you're out there on your own."
Though his Coastal career will end after the Chants' final postseason game this season, Bortnick's work ethic and competitiveness have left an indelible mark on Gilmore's youth-laden roster.
"He works hard every day," Motter said. "He's the hardest worker on this team. He loves the game. He loves winning. He wants this program to win a national championship more than anybody in the world."
Wow. What a great read! Thanks for sharing -
CD,
That was great stuff.
I understand how your son was feeling, besides not advancing there is the thought that it was his last game. I also wasn't there when it happended (last game), but I understand that son took it very hard. A situation where you have been a part of a huge family, suddenly coming to an end. Even though he has moved on, he misses those days, very much. IMO, there is nothing like the college baseball experience, and I will always cherish those years as a parent of a player.
Pretty neat sending your kid off to school and 3-4 years later the boy becomes a man, it's really remarkable.
Being an ACC fan I always like to see those teams advance, but I was really hoping that CC would advance this year. I don't always understand the match ups, but then one very rarely understands what the NCAA is up to.
Wishing Tyler the best of luck in the upcoming draft, I hope he gets to pursue his dream, he deserves it.
That was great stuff.
I understand how your son was feeling, besides not advancing there is the thought that it was his last game. I also wasn't there when it happended (last game), but I understand that son took it very hard. A situation where you have been a part of a huge family, suddenly coming to an end. Even though he has moved on, he misses those days, very much. IMO, there is nothing like the college baseball experience, and I will always cherish those years as a parent of a player.
Pretty neat sending your kid off to school and 3-4 years later the boy becomes a man, it's really remarkable.
Being an ACC fan I always like to see those teams advance, but I was really hoping that CC would advance this year. I don't always understand the match ups, but then one very rarely understands what the NCAA is up to.
Wishing Tyler the best of luck in the upcoming draft, I hope he gets to pursue his dream, he deserves it.
Thanks TPM and baseball_fever!
Looking back, playing four years of college was a huge blessing. Here is a recap from yesterdays' final game and from the first line, you can tell he took it hard...
http://www.thesunnews.com/174/story/921494.html
Looking back, playing four years of college was a huge blessing. Here is a recap from yesterdays' final game and from the first line, you can tell he took it hard...
http://www.thesunnews.com/174/story/921494.html
CD,
He will be fine, takes a few days I think we take it harder than they do.
He will be fine, takes a few days I think we take it harder than they do.
CD,
Great stuff. Just goes to show what a true athlete and team player Tyler is.
Like TPM said, he will be fine in the long run, but doesn't ease the immediate pain and frustration.
Congrats on a great career. I wish him well.
Great stuff. Just goes to show what a true athlete and team player Tyler is.
Like TPM said, he will be fine in the long run, but doesn't ease the immediate pain and frustration.
Congrats on a great career. I wish him well.
Dan,
Reading that first line gives me chills. Most of us have witnessed that sort of emotion in our players at one time or another. The game isn't just a game to them. Knowing the kind of player Tyler is, I can imagine the emotion he was feeling. He has had a fine ride... fine because of the player he is and what he has earned.
My hat's off to the kid!
Reading that first line gives me chills. Most of us have witnessed that sort of emotion in our players at one time or another. The game isn't just a game to them. Knowing the kind of player Tyler is, I can imagine the emotion he was feeling. He has had a fine ride... fine because of the player he is and what he has earned.
My hat's off to the kid!
I will keep thanking people as long as you keep posting here. It indeed has been a wonderful, wonderful ride. Frank and Charlotte - thanks so much for your kind words
CD I dont think there is anything else I would rather have said about my son that what I have I read here about yours. I know you are very proud of him and you should be. What an outstanding college career!
I have always stressed to my players
"You will leave a legacy behind when you step off that field here for the last time. Regardless of wether you want to or not you will. Scattered all across this field are the baseball tombstones of every player that has ever playerd here. Writtin on those tombstones are those players legacies. Writtin on some are "Great team player who dedicated himself to being the best player he could be. He made those around him better while always striving to be a better player and person. He was a credit to the game and this program." Others have not so complimentary legacies but they are still writtin on their tombstone for all to see and remember. You can not go back and change the writing on your baseball tombstone. It is indeed writtin in stone for all to see and for all to remember. So remember this everyday you step on this field. What will your legacy be? Its up to you to write it!
Your son now has one of those somewhere on that field in Conway , SC. It will always be there for all to see and remember. It is one that he will always be proud of. He can come back in the future and hold his head up high knowing he left a legacy to be proud of. Money can not buy this. Regional Championships or even National Championships can not buy this. It has to be earned. And your son earned the most important thing a player can earn. A legacy he can be proud of for the rest of this life. Congrats! Well done.
I have always stressed to my players
"You will leave a legacy behind when you step off that field here for the last time. Regardless of wether you want to or not you will. Scattered all across this field are the baseball tombstones of every player that has ever playerd here. Writtin on those tombstones are those players legacies. Writtin on some are "Great team player who dedicated himself to being the best player he could be. He made those around him better while always striving to be a better player and person. He was a credit to the game and this program." Others have not so complimentary legacies but they are still writtin on their tombstone for all to see and remember. You can not go back and change the writing on your baseball tombstone. It is indeed writtin in stone for all to see and for all to remember. So remember this everyday you step on this field. What will your legacy be? Its up to you to write it!
Your son now has one of those somewhere on that field in Conway , SC. It will always be there for all to see and remember. It is one that he will always be proud of. He can come back in the future and hold his head up high knowing he left a legacy to be proud of. Money can not buy this. Regional Championships or even National Championships can not buy this. It has to be earned. And your son earned the most important thing a player can earn. A legacy he can be proud of for the rest of this life. Congrats! Well done.
Coach May - you are getting me emotional again
Thanks more than you will ever know for your kind words
I am sending you a pm... thanks!
Thanks more than you will ever know for your kind words
I am sending you a pm... thanks!
Coach May is so right on. What your son has experienced are the real prizes in this game.
I am not so sure that this is the last we'll hear of TB, you'll see, one door closes and another opens.
I am not so sure that this is the last we'll hear of TB, you'll see, one door closes and another opens.
I have no idea how I have missed this thread dating all the way back to August -- and I have been on the Ohio forum several times to post on the American Idol thread!
What a moving tribute to an extremely talented player in his final year of college baseball. I can only imagine your intense emotions, CD, since Ben is 3 years behind Tyler, but I'm sure your heartstrings have been tugged on dozens of times these past few months.
Like TPM, I believe that as one door closes another one opens. I am quite confident that God has some amazing and exciting times in store for Tyler (and for your entire family) in the next few months and I can't wait to hear all about them!
Please keep this thread updated so we can keep tabs on both him and you. Meanwhile, I'll be praying that God comforts you with wonderful memories that can truly be cherished forever!
What a moving tribute to an extremely talented player in his final year of college baseball. I can only imagine your intense emotions, CD, since Ben is 3 years behind Tyler, but I'm sure your heartstrings have been tugged on dozens of times these past few months.
Like TPM, I believe that as one door closes another one opens. I am quite confident that God has some amazing and exciting times in store for Tyler (and for your entire family) in the next few months and I can't wait to hear all about them!
Please keep this thread updated so we can keep tabs on both him and you. Meanwhile, I'll be praying that God comforts you with wonderful memories that can truly be cherished forever!
Oh my... I'll just keep thanking people until there is no one left to thank! Laura/Infield08 - those are beautifully written words. Everyone has done so much to pick my spirits up. Thanks a million
About the draft...
I am paranoid about it. We thought he would be drafted last year and it was not to be. It turned out to be a huge blessing the way it has unfolded nonetheless. The tricky part about the draft is that the local scouts can tell you they love you until they are blue in the face but they do not have the power to draft as the only power they actually have is in the recomendation. All it takes is one team and that is my honest hope
About the draft...
I am paranoid about it. We thought he would be drafted last year and it was not to be. It turned out to be a huge blessing the way it has unfolded nonetheless. The tricky part about the draft is that the local scouts can tell you they love you until they are blue in the face but they do not have the power to draft as the only power they actually have is in the recomendation. All it takes is one team and that is my honest hope
CD, it doesn't matter who you talk to and who you don't. Son never talked to anyone, he was too busy playing baseball.
FWIW, DK never even met the scout that drafted him, and only got a call the day before the draft that they were interested, was he? That was it, that was the one and only contact he had with them until the next day. Obviously he was in a discussion when they were putting together their draft board, a few days before the draft.
FWIW, DK never even met the scout that drafted him, and only got a call the day before the draft that they were interested, was he? That was it, that was the one and only contact he had with them until the next day. Obviously he was in a discussion when they were putting together their draft board, a few days before the draft.
I want to add my congrats to TB and appreciation for all that he accomplished in his great college career. I only got to read so much from Dan's ever modest reports, and I only got to see him play via the intertoob, but even there I could tell that he's something special.
I was on the road for perhaps my son's last home game recently, and I couldn't wait to get back home for some yard work. Some things just can't be beat for getting back in touch with what really matters most.
I also wanted to repost Fungo's thoughts from the top of this thread. They are still pertinent as they are timeless. Always mindful that as parents we'll all be there someday soon.
All the best to Tyler moving forward. I'm pretty sure there's a lot more baseball ahead for him.
I was on the road for perhaps my son's last home game recently, and I couldn't wait to get back home for some yard work. Some things just can't be beat for getting back in touch with what really matters most.
I also wanted to repost Fungo's thoughts from the top of this thread. They are still pertinent as they are timeless. Always mindful that as parents we'll all be there someday soon.
All the best to Tyler moving forward. I'm pretty sure there's a lot more baseball ahead for him.
quote:Thanks for sharing CD. So true! The “last times” are special ---but so are the “first times”. My son ended his baseball career this spring. He called this 4th of July on his way to a lake house in the mountains of North Carolina. Lake Norman I think. He seemed very happy when he said this was the “first time” he has been able to go on a non-baseball vacation. He learned to water ski and ride a tube which he had never done in his previous 24 years. I have enjoyed this summer as much as any. No baseball trips after 20 years of carrying or following my son around. At last I can do some “other” things ---- or maybe I’ll just do nothing. Those times were special and I agree with you that we need to never forget the last times and enjoy them while they “are”. However the memories become sweeter with age.
Fungo
spizz - thanks so much for those great thoughts!
For the record, spizz's son Sam struck my son and several others out so I know that young man can play!! All the best to him in the future
Since there has been a nostalgia aspect to this thread, my favorite memory is still my son's first at bat in college. His first experiences were as a defensive replacement only late in games. We were not complaining in this role however because it beat the redshirt role he had earlier in the season.
For several games, if his turn in the batting order came up, they pinch hit for him and he was a little frustrated by that. It was St. Patties day 2006 and I left early from watching live stats of the game that night to go out with colleages for drinks after work. When I got home, I checked the hsbbweb and my friends Smokie and BigGuy had posted that my son won the game in his first ever at bat - a walk-off basehit/line drive in the bottom of the ninth. I was stunned and had no idea what had happened. A moment later my son called and it was indeed one of the happiest moments of our lives. I told him one of my most familiar refrains "No one listens to their Dad" It is code-speak for all the times I tried to raise his spirits when he was fighting his way up from the bottom. There is no doubt in my mind that hit changed his entire career. I'll be the first to admit there is luck involved. I do believe in the expression however "The harder you work, the luckier you get" I hate to keep doing this, but every time I think back on these things, I get emotional
For the record, spizz's son Sam struck my son and several others out so I know that young man can play!! All the best to him in the future
Since there has been a nostalgia aspect to this thread, my favorite memory is still my son's first at bat in college. His first experiences were as a defensive replacement only late in games. We were not complaining in this role however because it beat the redshirt role he had earlier in the season.
For several games, if his turn in the batting order came up, they pinch hit for him and he was a little frustrated by that. It was St. Patties day 2006 and I left early from watching live stats of the game that night to go out with colleages for drinks after work. When I got home, I checked the hsbbweb and my friends Smokie and BigGuy had posted that my son won the game in his first ever at bat - a walk-off basehit/line drive in the bottom of the ninth. I was stunned and had no idea what had happened. A moment later my son called and it was indeed one of the happiest moments of our lives. I told him one of my most familiar refrains "No one listens to their Dad" It is code-speak for all the times I tried to raise his spirits when he was fighting his way up from the bottom. There is no doubt in my mind that hit changed his entire career. I'll be the first to admit there is luck involved. I do believe in the expression however "The harder you work, the luckier you get" I hate to keep doing this, but every time I think back on these things, I get emotional
quote:Originally posted by ClevelandDad:
We were not complaining in this role however because it beat the redshirt role he had earlier in the season.
I'm sure you'd never forget about that but I was just about to say "It seems like yesterday we chatted about the possibility of redshirting". Looking back, and seeing how it all played out, I'm not sure if you'd have it any other way. A tip of the cap to TB and to YOU for instilling all of the incredible traits on display! You've done good dad (and mom)!
quote:A tip of the cap to TB
The credit stops right there. I wish I could say we instilled something in him but that is just the way he is. He loves the game and the story is no more complicated than that. Thanks for the kind words Bill!
Was fortunate to be there for the premature end of our post season. I got a good sweaty hug from Tyler and cried with all the kids and parents. Baseball players are great kids. I am so proud of them all.
Thanks puma - all the best to Nick and all the boys in the future! Emotional times indeed!
"He loves the game and the story is no more complicated than that."
I'm not sure why I am sobbing right now, but I am. That kid TB is a special young man, special player. I hope I see him on a big league field some day.
Julie
I'm not sure why I am sobbing right now, but I am. That kid TB is a special young man, special player. I hope I see him on a big league field some day.
Julie
quote:Originally posted by MN-Mom:
"He loves the game and the story is no more complicated than that."
I'm not sure why I am sobbing right now, but I am. That kid TB is a special young man, special player. I hope I see him on a big league field some day.
Julie
I think you answered your own question. TB epitomizes what the game is about. He's the kind of kid that any true lover of baseball enjoys and roots for. He's what we love to see succeed. That makes me emotional too!
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