I've followed this thread a bit, but haven't read it all. But from what I have read, it seems I might have something to add.
As parents, we all know the "odds" of our youngsters eventually playing in the major leagues. I've never thought, however, that the reality of long odds was a reason to discourage the dream. From a very early age it has been my son's goal to play big league baseball. Why discourage such a dream?
I remember so clearly one day, my son and I driving to his practice, he was maybe 11 years old. He looked at me, and asked: "Dad, do you think I can make it?"
I remember it so vividly. Do I tell him the reality of how unlikely it was that he would ever end up being a major league baseball player? I decided that there was plenty of time for that. I answered with the truth, if not the entire truth: "Yes, I think you can make it."
I've thought about that moment a lot over the years. As baseball parents, we all want to strike the right balance between encouraging our kids to go as far as they can in the game, while keeping a healthy perspective on the bigger picture. How do we encourage our kids to realize their dreams in baseball and at the same time make sure that other doors remain open?
We didn't want to discourage his dream, but at the same time we wanted to make sure that he would be prepared for life beyond baseball.
Part of the answer, for us, was to have him play college baseball at the best combination of competitive baseball and top tier academics as possible. Frankly, this was more a priority of mine than his during his recruiting experience. But I believe that he saw the wisdom in it as he matured.
When Duke came calling, that was obviously a no brainer.
So, he graduates from Duke after a good career, but goes undrafted. The "odds" are against him. The problem: he loves the game, and is not ready to quit. He has always been the guy coaches love when they see him play over extended periods, but they don't fall in love at first sight.
He signed and played last summer with an Indy league club, and did very well. Anyone think he doesn't understand the odds of making it in baseball from the Indy leagues? Of course he does.
But he loves the game. Tell him he's got a 1% chance of climbing the ladder to the top, and he just kind of gives you a blank stare. It's almost irrelevant to him, because he likes playing baseball.
But none of that means he has not set himself up to have options after his playing days are over. He is working in the off season at Nike, and expects to have a career track job with the company after his baseball days are over.
So, the "odds" are irrelevant. He will play until they tell him he is done, and then he will pursue the avenues that he has set himself up to pursue awn the cleats are on the wall.