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Originally posted by downandout:
I really aprreciate all the advice and responses and as Tiger Paw Mom pointed out, maybe I should be more specific about this situation. This problem is very disturbing to me because it involves baseball and my son. But really the problem is bigger than that, not all public schools were created equal. And I'm not trying to debate this topic but merely to point out that our schools AD loves football, so everything else as far as recruiting is concerned is not essential. And for that matter even academics aren't really pushed, its really sad in my opinion. Some schools are known for powerhouse football and others for baseball or whatever they choose as their focus. Football brings in lots more money, but thats another topic. I have spent a lot of time reading this board and learned a whole lot, so many thanks to all. We are just in a spot and it is frustrating to not see any support. My son does play for a traveling team and we have gone to showcases, they really do work to provide exposure. So, I think he'll be okay. But we will never know who has called and what was said because of this mentality. Its really lousy, and as someone pointed out hs bball is for the experiences, which is great. But why even bother not knowing what they are saying, graduate early and go to a JUCO. Its their loss.
Football rules wherever you go!
What you are experiencing is not uncommon. FWIW, some college coaches are the same, some will do whatever they can to help the player get to the next level, and others won't even give out the questionaires to their players. That's why most hold scout days, that's also what our HS coach did.
When son was being recruited, he told son to fill out the questionaires and give them to him with a self addressed stamped envelope to return to the coaches. He was very helpful in that regard, but I do not think he felt it was his responsibility to help his players beyone that. He is very proud of my son, but he also knows that he was not the one who took the calls regarding son, that was his travel coach, who shared a much different relationship with his players as that was a large part of his program, to help players get to the next level.
Take ownership of the situation, it's up to you and your son to do the necessary work in preparing for his future, no one elses.
If college coaches are really interested in your son, they won't stop because the HS coach doesn't respond to his inquiries.